ttc while bf... testing until positive!!!! who's in?!

[blessedmomma]

i say go for it pink! cant hurt right ??

my nips would hurt so bad at ovulation. and then again when af showed up. now its just constant. i agree it has to be the hormones. when i was nursing and pregnant with my last baby it was the same. i never had nipple pain while pregnant when i wasnt nursing

 

[pinkpassion]

How do you handle the pain? It is excruciating!!!

 

[bellyfever]

Hi pink! I've been MIA since last cycle since was feeling a little bitter when af showed, but better now. Went to my new OB and have get all testing we have had done and she says we basically have undiagnosed infertility. She wants me to start femara next cycle and see if that will help us. She said it works the same way as Clomid just with less side effects. I so wish we could have started it this month but was on CD7 and she wants me to take the femara cd5-9. So this month I haven't done any temps and going to try and not use any tests as she told me I really need to try and destress and that I'm prob driving myself crazy monitoring my cycles like that, which I am. She said if nothing happens after 3 months then w will explore other options. So glad I found OB that is willing to work with me as my other OB just wanted me to go to specialist.

As for wither to dtd tonight just let it happen if it's going too. But it's hard to do that one you know it's about that time.

 

[pinkpassion]

Belly, so glad to hear from you !!! I am so glad to hear your news !! I remember when I switched ob's when ttc #1 because my first ob was so not compassionate and basically told me he wouldn't do any tests because he didn't consider chemicals miscarriages, and that I was basically forcing miscarriages by worrying about it so much!!
I have heard great things about the femara, is your dh getting a sa or anything? I think I remember you said you'd had a miscarriage before dh ?? I hope that this coming cycle is your cycle!! I would absolutely love seeing you get a bfp!!!
I think I'll just let it be, if we end up bd'ing then yay and if not it's ok!! I know on the one month I gave up I got pregnant with my mmc and then me and dh had some problems after that and we weren't trying and had some awful few months, and dtd tons in a few days time, literally multiple times a day, but I didn't think I was ovulating, wasn't tracking but hadn't felt any ovulation symptoms and lo and behold I got pregnant with dd, so maybe I do need to just relax!! I feel like I have this month, I've had way too much other stuff going on!!

 

[blessedmomma]

pink i just grit through it! i also have reynauds vasospasms on top of it and they hurt so bad!!! i have been thinking of weaning her or at least cutting back. she only nurses once a day and then a few times at night. your old ob sounds like a jerk. how dare he???

belly i hoooope your new ob is able to help and the femara works! ive heard good things about it

 

[pinkpassion]

I'm so excited , I just peed on an opk and the test line was so dark it stole dye from the control line, last month I never had anything even close to this!!!! I think I may have some fun with dh tonight, but I want it to be fun, no pressure, then I need to relax through the tww lol

 

[blessedmomma]

hooray!!! have fun pink

 

[pinkpassion]

Managed to bd last night , wanted to again this morning but my ovaries are so sore this morning I can hardly stand up !! I hope this is a good sign of strong eggs, I am hoping what I did take of the coq10 helped egg quality and that's why I'm hurting so bad!! I'm pretty sure I'll O today even though I'm not temping I was 96.3 today (that seems to be my ovulation temp ) but since I don't know for sure I'll have a range of for dpo!! Fx'd!!!

Dh and I took my dd pictures last night for her first birthday, she's almost 11 months but we wanted to include a picture in her birthday invitations and also have one at her bday party... so here is the one I'm using ... the pics turned out so good... my phone isn't letting me attach pic, keeps saying it's too large !

 

[Koosmien]

When is the 1st birthday of you daughter, Pink? My daughter is having her 2nd birthday party this sunday; she turned 2 on 29 april, but there was no weekend available earlier...

I've got sore nipples too. Yesterday my OPK was white, so I guess I missed the positive OPK or it was an almost ovulation? We did take a chance yesterday, who knows there was still an egg? I had cramps the day before, but yesterday and now I don't have any. I am so curious: will the b vit have effect?

I don't temp because we co-sleep and my daughter wakes me at different times in the morning. How do you do this? I would like to temp because then I will know if I o'd.

 

[pinkpassion]

Her birthday isn't until June but we needed the pictures for her invitation .
We stopped cosleeping at 9 months so now she sleeps in her crib through the night, if she happens to wake up early I go ahead and temp yhrn, and then when I go back to bed and wake up at my normal time I temp again and compare, they are usually very close to the same temp(If I've had good sleep the second time or if the first temp is close to my regular temping time I don't temp again because it won't have been enough time )...

 

[blessedmomma]

pink- def sounds like o day! sorry you're so sore, but maybe that's a good sign like you say. i would imagine any amount of coq10 would help!

koosmien- i still co-sleep and when i temped i just took it when i was about to get up for the day no matter what time it was. i would even be up nursing her several times in the night. my temps were able to pinpint ovulation. the b vitamins should help you.

 

[Koosmien]

Another update: yesterday I had an almost positive ovulation test. Today it was very light, almost not visible, but it was evening when I tested. My temperature was still low this morning, so no ovulation yet? I hope I ovulated And I hope the vitamin B complex is going to help lenghten the LP.

 

[BrandiCanucks]

Got my bfp on May 30!! Due in February!

 

[pinkpassion]

I got my bfp may 22nd, due Feb 3rd!!!!

 

[blessedmomma]

Hope it's not longer koosmien

Wow congrats brandicanucks and pinkpassion!!!!

 

[Oldermummy78]

Lucky thread here girls congrats to you all

 

[Koosmien]

Congratulations! Hmmm... still no temp rise... so I guess no ovulation yet? Or an anovulair cycle?

 

[Koosmien]

Yes! Fertility Friend app measured a temp rise since friday. Womenlog pro didn't. But because I feel like my ovulation occured and I have good feelings about this month I started progesterone cream next to the B complex, just to be sure. I just started today... so I hope it does something this late! Anyone who wants to share her experience with the combo B vits and progesterone cream?

 

[blessedmomma]

I used both and they worked great for me. one of the things bfing does is suppress cycle hormones. I'm still using my progesterone cream and will at least for first tri, but likely longer than that. I've actually used it for the last 3 babies before this one. it's a fabulous supplement!

 

[Koosmien]

I used both and they worked great for me. one of the things bfing does is suppress cycle hormones. I'm still using my progesterone cream and will at least for first tri, but likely longer than that. I've actually used it for the last 3 babies before this one. it's a fabulous supplement!

Good to hear blessed momma! Hope it will work for us too!