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[Ejay]

Mush and Niamh - OMG OMG OMG OMG, I am so excited for you both, congratulations xx

 

[tryforbaby2]

Men.....sunglass whores!


Honeybee, have fun studying.......

 

[Annamumof2]

OMG i havent been on here for what feels like ages lol and i see some people with good news congrats to the girls with BFP and fingers crossed for soon to be testers, well i have been having sex for the past 4 days now not cum for all but still had sex which is good im on CD 12 i am guessing and i have a very bad back for unknown reason and i felt sick and have hardly eatten a thing, ive took pain killers but not shifted it and the kids well OMG Jay will be going for a week in year one next week and skye is going in reseption next week as well but thursday she will be going all day, i am so going to be worried as she has only been going to nursary and my baby is no longer a baby, she will be 4 next week as well and i can't believe it.

anyway i will shhh for now hehe

and no more big things

 

[Jaimie2Eyes]

HOLY COW NIAMH AND MUSH!!! Congratulations ladies! I'm stoked there is a nice sized group to kick off TTHFUTD Ah I just love it! BFPs are lovely first thing Monday morning HURRAY for long time try'ers and first cycle post mc'ers getting knocked up!

Mush you have not been selfish! I'm sorry if the roll call put you off, I took it down a while ago because I just really wanted to get a sense of where we were all at. Definitely hope this is super sticky for you and Niamh Really glad you are checking in and sharing the fabulous news with us

Niamh - you are proving the "taking a break and trying to relax" theory right darn you!!!

Julia ~ it is awesome reading your posts again and I love the vacation pics. I don't even know what to say about your sisters Titi does have some similar frustrations with her brothers. That crap would drive me NUTS. I love how you and mush are caring for each other on here - that rocks

I am loving the positive attitude ladies, you truly are a bunch of champions! I am so glad that I am part of this group, I consider you all friends and love you dearly!! Getting all mushy here, the witch must ave bought her hormones with her. This is by far the best, funniest, most supportive group on BnB, and we should all appreciate how lucky we are to have found each other! Sob finished.

Start my new job tomorrow, I'm getting nervous!

Good luck with the new job Soph! And I totally agree with you about how lucky we are to have found each other ~ another silver lining in this TTC experience.

In fact, I went to a couple of get togethers this weekend and it was all I could do not to bring you all up in conversation ~ for some reason I held back because it seemed a little crazy to talk about my virtual friends with my real life friends. I have definitely described TTHF stuff and things about you lovely ladies to a couple of close friends, but in a party setting I guess I worried folks would think I was some sort of internet chat room freak Seriously though, I love that I can share things with y'all that I can't share with my family and friends. No one understands this experience like you do

In case you didn't see this earlier Julia, I "met" Dee, Lilaala, and Titi on the LTTTC threads and in Titi's journal. Titi encouraged them to come over to the dark side of TTHF

All that being said, (And TTHFUTD is GREAT!!) I'd almost say why don't we just enjoy the crap outta this thread? Why do we have to separate once we conceive? I vote for sticking to a single thread and making jokes that cross any 'boundaries' that would separate those who are UTD and those who aren't yet. This is the most at home I've felt on BnB and I've been on this site since the end of '08, I want to stick to together regardless of 'status'.

Honestly LTTTC can be so soul destroying, but I can't regret the loss of my ignorance one bit!
...
That being said, am I done the TTC learning yet?

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That which I stuffed in my face hole yesterday and today now recorded.

Oh Good Golly! I must think that to myself 20 times a day - once I go through my mental list of what I'm grateful for and the benefits of TTC, I think "ok, I get it, can I be pg now?"

I think the main impetus behind TTHFUTD is that once ladies cross over they can't post as much about what they are experiencing in here, or maybe feel less comfortable with all the TTC stuff once they've gotten BFPs. I know there is probably a little guilt once you've gotten UTD and all your best gals haven't ~ even though there shouldn't be. Just like I shouldn't be jealous of beautiful bumps and babies - it still happens I definitely would like this thread to be a comfortable place for everyone, but I also see the conflicts pg women must go through in the TTC threads. I think if we have both, hopefully we can all check both threads out but go to our "safer places" when we need to, you know? I think it would be cool to have TTFUTD just so I can check out a first tri thread

And finally, Lilaala, your posts make me wonder if you can get gobsmacked by poppycock?

RIDE THAT LOVE STICK sorry lowering the tone there!!!!

I could totally hear you yelling that out loud Niamh - so freakin' funny! Apparently riding the love stick is a good idea

Titi - I really do think another benefit to the TTC journey is growing spiritually. I laughed when you wrote that this is going to make us all gurus! Love the new profile pic ~ is that your cousin's baby? Don't you love seeing DH hold a baby? I've seen that twice with my DH and he is really uncomfortable and akward but he loves it Ahaha - "wait for it - starting tomorrow!" I'm going gung ho on the paleo / low carb thing today

Squirrel - I used sparkpeople.com, another "facebook" for people that want to share their exercise and food intake information, for over a year. I feel a little burned out on that sort of thing but I highly recommend it for people that are getting back into the swing of it. I will keep posting the stuff I am proud of in your journal though - I definitely like putting my energy into diet and exercise as a distraction from TTC

Soph ~ I'm so sorry AF showed I can't believe you called it on Niamh's BFP! That is awesome. Your belly dancing sounds SO cool! Do you have any videos of you doing it? Remember those awesome videos Niamh posted of that comedian on the irish tv show? I picture you as the skinny, talented dancer she was so jealous of. OMG your masturbating birds, I had forgotten about that too. Birds are wicked horny! Just like monkeys...

I really like the pH strip in the spermy trampoline soup idea - and posting our results! I gotta get some fishy strips now...

 

[tryforbaby2]

I was thinking about the new girls the past few weeks as I was skimming through posts. Did they give their names as well?.....

To the new girls, I am Julie, Julia, Jul or whatever.......lol

You guys are going to hurry and get your bfps......all of you.....I feel it!! Just check in with me, ok?! LOL

 

[tryforbaby2]

Jaimie have you been using softcups still?


Iwill be off to the local store as soon as my bleeding stops for a packof those suckers! Those were my best friends while TTC!

 

[tryforbaby2]

LOVE STICK

 

[mushmouth]

Haha oh dear I have missed your crazy filths!

Jaimie - thank you honey bunches! I loved the idea of the roll call, i just felt a little hmm... Out of place and that I didn't deserve to be here. Most of you girls have been trying a few months and finding it hard. Where as I catch straight away, twice, just lost one. oh well, like I said i really hope it's not easy come easy go. Please let this be a sticky!

I keep talking to my hubby about
My friends... And he just looks at me like a nutter! Gotta love BnB!

 

[CelticNiamh]

Jaimie great post!!!

OOOH yea Shelia Sheek!!! video on you tube she is so funny!!!

I think the two thread idea is a good idea as well, just in case! plus we can all come back and fourth! I cant see my self leaving here though I like that I can still come in here to keep and eye on all my buddies and may be rub my belly on the screen to pass on the luck!


OOOH I dare ye all to not temp and forget what day of your cycle your on

Mush I don't think any one felt that way about you Hun, we know what you went through hoping this one is a sticky bean. do they know what you MC before will you be having any bloods

 

[CelticNiamh]

LOVE STICK

yep whoo hoo LOL

 

[Jaimie2Eyes]

Rightyo Niamh - are you going to start TTHFUTD and post the link in here? (hint hint) Ha! I love that you dare us to forget what CD we are on!! I'm gonna win that bet sucka

Julia - I'd be more than happy to send you the cups I haven't used yet. We were discussing superstitions earlier and I'd be willing to bet you are partial to this pack. Speaking of superstitions, I even used the one you opened to show your sister because I thought it would be extra lucky because you touched it Ok, that is a little weird to admit but there ya go. I have been using them and really liking them but I can definitely order a pack for myself. Did you see my "introduction" earlier to Dee, Lilaala and Titi? They are super duper LT'ers I've "met".

Mush - you've definitely had a tough TTC row to hoe and it doesn't matter one bit how many months you've been trying. You've been on BnB since January and that is plenty long!!!

 

[Dee7509]

Wow Jaime, that's a long lovely post! How do you remember everything? there are so many things to comment on I lose track.

Soph - the belly dancing sounds awesome and congratulations on the new job. Sorry about Af though .

Niamh - didn't realise you were "relaxing" when you got BFP. Really, really cool

Julia - lovely pics, you're a gorgeous couple.

Titi - nice photo of DH with baby, meant to comment earlier.

Can't wait to see TTHFUTD and to be a part of it.

This TTC journey is definitely easier having buddies to ask questions, share laughter, console each other and of course, to be happy with when we're successful

 

[CelticNiamh]

Jaimie here it is, please see if its ok trying to think of something witty to say LOL

https://www.babyandbump.com/pregnancy-buddies/369427-tthfutd-pregnancy-group.html#post6103151

 

[Jaimie2Eyes]

Awesome Niamh! Nice intro page!! I did my best to post something whitty

Dee - sometimes I use the multi quote feature on bnb but mostly I copy and paste the stuff I want to respond to into another bnb window or into Microsoft Word, then I add the quote codes later. When I have a big response the multi quotes get a little tough, especially when ladies are quoting quotes (hee). LuckyD is the multi quote queen!

 

[CelticNiamh]

Awesome Niamh! Nice intro page!! I did my best to post something whitty

Dee - sometimes I use the multi quote feature on bnb but mostly I copy and paste the stuff I want to respond to into another bnb window or into Microsoft Word, then I add the quote codes later. When I have a big response the multi quotes get a little tough, especially when ladies are quoting quotes (hee). LuckyD is the multi quote queen!

I can see that

 

[soph77]

Oh mush, I said it before but I will say ti again, congratulations! I am so happy for you hun! You, Julia and honey were the first friends i made on bnb and I am over the moon for you

And Niamh, I KNEW it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You lucky devil!! I had a feeling you were utd days ago, I am thrilled to pieces for you too sweetie! I posted in the tthfutd thread!

Yesterday was ok, I met the other teachers and got to spend time with the ladies in my yr6 team and do some planning which was good. Today is the first day back for the students so I will get to meet them today. I couldn't sleep I was so nervous so I just got out of bed and came on here but I might go and try to do some prep so I can look like I have my head screwed on straight when I get there this morning!

 

[mushmouth]

Thank you girls

Soph I do love you!

Niamh - Sadly because of te way the mc happened, and the fact yet didn't scan me until nearly a week after it started, and 5 days after baby passed, we have no idea about anything. Not even when baby stopped growing. Nothing.

I don't know what to expect from the doc, and kinda putting it off for some reason.

Oooh off to join TTHFUTD! lol

Not sure in blood

 

[tryforbaby2]

Thats ok jaimie, you keep the uber lucky batch of softcups!!! I gotmy bfp on my third month of using them, along with my first whole month of drinking rrl tea and first cycle using digi opks. I am swearing by those three things and that is what I am going to do when I am able! I did see your post of the new girls! WELCOME NEW GIRLS!!!!!!!

Have fun in the new thread girls! Save a seat over there for me....

 

[Jaimie2Eyes]

Soph posted on TTHFUTD that she was "marking her territory" That is extra funny because we pee on hpt's to get our bfp's!!! Very clever Soph, glad you are a teacher

 

[honeybee28]

lol!! I've not even looked in TTHFUTD, and i dont think im going to until im... you know....

hey niamh, I dont know what cd im on!! and im not using opk or cbfm or temping or anything lol. I mean, i can work it out.... it's like cd11 or something. but i have to work it out, i dont just know it anymore. maybe the chilled out approach will work for me too!?