Hello ladies! Don't loose all hope. 15 month age gap here and it is brilliant. It's undoubtably hard, obviously. But it is so so rewarding. Annabelle loves her little brother. When they see each other in the morning, I makes me want to cry! She cuddles him and kisses him and he giggles away. They talk to each other they are inseparable. Feel free to pm me and add me on facebook, I have videos of them hiding away laughing hysterically at one another. The love they have for each other is so so worth it. Honestly, it will get you through all the crap. Talking of crap, my two poo at the same time? I'm not sure if that's normal but it makes life so much easier! Nappies changed at the same time lol done! It's hard work and tiring trying to work, keep a house clean and look after my little monkies but don't waste time worrying. You will be fine! Nights are so much easier than I though. Joseph still wakes twice in the night but I don't mind. We had time to sleep train annabelle but Joseph disturbs the whole house hold so I just do what ever it takes to make him happy. I'm much softer with him than I was with belle. I think it's because you chill a lot more with your second, I don't know. But we are all very happy and please future mummies of small age gaps, don't worry, you will cope with what ever comes your way xx