U.S. Mommies To Be

My labor the first time around was 13hrs long but the time flew by. Contractions started, Water broke, Epi came and by 11:55pm my daughter was born. <fingers crossed> this one is just as easy as the last. Lord knows the pregnancy has been the complete opposite.
 
i usually do ok with breathing through things til i get to 5-6 then things stall out. i get the epi and it moves things right along. i wish it was only an hour, LOL, but it definitely is only a few hours and amazingly enough it takes less time to do the second half. i have had four of them and have never had a problem with any one of them. the first time they turned it off for me to push, wont do that again. 2nd two times i pushed with it on, yay, only took a couple of pushes since i could focus and wasnt in pain. last time it wore off because he was born at midnight and they couldnt find the lady to up my dose, yikes! praying that doesnt happen again. i feel so thankful to keep my energy for my baby in the end instead of using it on the pain. i do think if i had a horrible experience with it, i probably wouldnt have done it again. mine have all been wonderful though :thumbup:
 
everyone I know has had a issue with the epi which is another reason I don't want one...
 
If it wasn't for the horrible pain I'd do it without the epi but I have one heck of a low pain tolerance. I give all the ladies who go all natural major props! :thumbup:
 
Only time will tell who can go natural LOL

I cant wait for the birth stories and baby pictures in this thread :happydance:
 
Only time will tell who can go natural LOL

I cant wait for the birth stories and baby pictures in this thread :happydance:

LOL- we will all see!!!! i really wanted to go natural with my first. i was determined and got as much info as i could about it. i guess until your there, you never know. i was fine until my water broke:haha:

now i think, whats the point? why have all that pain- for what? baby is ok either way so why be miserable myself??

i think it will be awesome to hear everyone's birth stories and see pics on here too:happydance:
 
i wish i could go natural but ive already thought about it just with these cramps i get now and im only about 7 weeks it probly wont happen lol but i dont think kaiser does water births or will even let u labor in water so either way i dont really have a choice
 
So I just watched One Born Every Minute last night. (had to DVR it)
What did everyone think of this episode?

I keep laughing at the guy who said he was "Type A Personality"
He was so funny!

Then when the twins were born! One of each! My husband didn't think it was possible!
 
LOL- that was crazy. i have heard of the twin thing happening before but my DH was also amazed. was a good episode for sure! im addicted to watching birthing shows. my husband makes me turn it when he comes home for lunch- hahahaha!:haha:
 
lol
This was the first one my DH watched with me. Hopefully he'll learn what not to do! lol
I told him all the things that would get on my nerves that the other husbands were doing! lol
 
So I just watched One Born Every Minute last night. (had to DVR it)
What did everyone think of this episode?

I keep laughing at the guy who said he was "Type A Personality"
He was so funny!

Then when the twins were born! One of each! My husband didn't think it was possible!


That show had me on edge in the beginning! After baby Emma was born (the one with the stuck shoulder) I cried. I love that show. The twin thing was awesome. It's amazing what can happen when your AI. And ADD guy was hilarious. His wife has her hands full LOL!
 
Hi Ladies!! I posted in here last year, I was due October 2010 and gave birth to my son (on the left) I'm in need of some advice ...... I just found out I'm pregnant again but do not have any health insurance. I cannot get on my husbands plan at work until open enrollment which happens to be January. I am unable to find anything online that doesn't say there is a 12 month waiting period for maternity benefits and we make too much money to be eligible for medicaid. I am at a loss for words because it is my understanding in the state of Arkansas pregnancy is not considered a pre-existing condition?? Are there any other options?
 
Hi Ladies!! I posted in here last year, I was due October 2010 and gave birth to my son (on the left) I'm in need of some advice ...... I just found out I'm pregnant again but do not have any health insurance. I cannot get on my husbands plan at work until open enrollment which happens to be January. I am unable to find anything online that doesn't say there is a 12 month waiting period for maternity benefits and we make too much money to be eligible for medicaid. I am at a loss for words because it is my understanding in the state of Arkansas pregnancy is not considered a pre-existing condition?? Are there any other options?

My understanding is that preganncy is not a pre-existing condition for group plans that you would find through a workplace. Individual plans still have pre-existing conditions until that healthcare reform kicks in I think.

The only option I can think of is using a free or low-cost clinic, or getting a job that offers benefits. What you COULD do is get a job, stay there long enough to get on the healthcare plan, then quit whenever you want and go on COBRA.

There are sometimes exceptions to the open enrollment rule... there basically has to be a specific event that will qualify you to enroll outside the open enrollment period:
The opportunity to enroll in a group health plan when certain work or life events occur, regardless of the plan’s regular enrollment dates. Generally, if certain conditions are met, special enrollment is available when you, your spouse or your dependents lose other coverage (including exhaustion of COBRA continuation coverage), when you marry or when you have a new child by birth, adoption or placement for adoption. The plan must give you at least 30 days--from the loss of coverage or from the date of the marriage, birth, adoption or placement for adoption--to request special enrollment. The maximum pre-existing condition exclusion that may be applied to a person upon special enrollment is 12 months (reduced by the person's prior creditable coverage). However, if enrolled within 30 days of birth, adoption or placement for adoption, children may be exempt from any pre-existing condition exclusion. A description of a plan's special enrollment rules must be given to the employee on or before the time the employee is offered the opportunity to enroll in the plan. For more information, see Questions and Answers: Recent Changes in Health Care Law
got that from the DOL site here: https://www.dol.gov/elaws/ebsa/health/4.asp
under Special Enrollment

So if you got a job long enough to give coverage (most jobs require you to work full-time and be there for a minimum period before benefits kick in... and I'd make sure you were fully enrolled with an insurance card and everything before quitting).
Leaving that job and losing coverage would qualify you to get on your husband's plan or to pay for COBRA to keep the coverage you just got.

Hope some of that helps! What an awful situation to be in! I do think there are lots of programs that provide prenatal care for those who can't afford it etc.
 
wantabelly- im not sure how your husbands insurance works. i know i wasnt on my husbands insurance until i got pregnant with my 3rd child. had always had insurance on my own that covered me and the kids, but was quitting my job to stay at home so i had to get on his. it was in november and there was no problem. there was only a couple reasons you could add someone without it being open enrollment... if the person got married, got pregnant, or had a baby. i would think they should let you, but maybe its screwy insurance??:shrug: did he talk to his HR dept or did you call someone at your insurance co? we just had to bring in proof i was his wife and that we were pregnant.

i felt so sad watching that baby emma being born. i was wondering why they didnt do a section instead of chancing it. i wouldve wanted them to section me instead of taking the chance of shoulder dystocia. especially with it being possibly fatal for a baby. that ADD guy drove me crazy, LOL! im happy to have my calm peaceful husband:winkwink:
 
OMG, I was crying like a little baby when Emma was born. I would of definately had them cut me open instread of risking it.

The ADD guy had me dying!! I don't know how his wife does it.

And the couple with the twins was awesome. You could tell that they loved each other and really wanted those babies.


AFM, I am going in tomorrow for a pelvic sonogram cause they found a cyst on my left ovary. My doc says not to worry about it but he just wants to keep an eye on it. Hopefully it doesn't grow. Plus, on Saturday I have my gloucose test which I am dreading. I had weight loss surgery and its really hard for me to drink the liquid in the 5 minutes that they want without getting extremely sick. I hope I can do it.
 
yeah emma made me cry... but it didn't seem like they really told the mother what they thought was going on or the risk... I am pretty sure she would have chosen different had they explained it to her..
 
Hi Ladies!! I posted in here last year, I was due October 2010 and gave birth to my son (on the left) I'm in need of some advice ...... I just found out I'm pregnant again but do not have any health insurance. I cannot get on my husbands plan at work until open enrollment which happens to be January. I am unable to find anything online that doesn't say there is a 12 month waiting period for maternity benefits and we make too much money to be eligible for medicaid. I am at a loss for words because it is my understanding in the state of Arkansas pregnancy is not considered a pre-existing condition?? Are there any other options?


I would go to the department of social services and get pregnancy insurance https://www.medicaid.state.ar.us/InternetProviderEnrollment/StartAnApplication.aspx
 
I started getting all teary eyed when Emma was born too, I can't imagine how hard it must have been for them waiting for her to come around.
 
Ok, so I have a 23 year old god son that I raised that moved to Hawaii 6 months ago- he came home today to surprise us! And my 18 year old is up visiting, and my 14 year old who lives here, and had a sono today- so I am a VERY happy camper and got to see all 5 of my kids in one day! Hopefully, the first of many :)
 
wantabelly I am pretty sure pregnancy is one of "life changing" things that they have to add you. Just curious why werent you covered already with his insurance? If you recently left your job or got married I think they kind of have to add you too.
 

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