So, It's been uncomfortable to say the least, this miscarriage/post D&C thing. My DH has been seeing me walking slow, breathing slow/deep(because it's UNCOMFORTABLE) and STILL He asks "What's WRONG??" with this puzzled look on his face.
I AM SO FREAKING TIRED of telling him "IT HURTS!!" TWICE tonight he did it. I was coming home from the store, moving slow, grudging up the steps - he came out to carry the heavy groceries. He looks at me with that look again and says "What's wrong??!" Again, I say "IT HURTS!" OMG!
Then a couple hours later - I put my daughter to bed, I go down to the basement, throw a load of laundry in the dryer, come up stairs and again, walking slow, gingerly - and he says "What's WRONG?!" O M G - I finally Snap, and say "YOU KEEP ASKING ME THIS ALL THE TIME - WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO SAY?!? IT HURTS OKAY?!?" I think I hurt his feelings, but MY GOSH - Because it's internal and you can't SEE it, doesn't mean you need to be asking me every time I walk like a 90 year old, WHAT THE HE&$&@ is WRONG with me???
UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I AM SO FREAKING TIRED of telling him "IT HURTS!!" TWICE tonight he did it. I was coming home from the store, moving slow, grudging up the steps - he came out to carry the heavy groceries. He looks at me with that look again and says "What's wrong??!" Again, I say "IT HURTS!" OMG!
Then a couple hours later - I put my daughter to bed, I go down to the basement, throw a load of laundry in the dryer, come up stairs and again, walking slow, gingerly - and he says "What's WRONG?!" O M G - I finally Snap, and say "YOU KEEP ASKING ME THIS ALL THE TIME - WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO SAY?!? IT HURTS OKAY?!?" I think I hurt his feelings, but MY GOSH - Because it's internal and you can't SEE it, doesn't mean you need to be asking me every time I walk like a 90 year old, WHAT THE HE&$&@ is WRONG with me???
UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!