Hi ladies,
I was just wanting to ask everyones advice on something thats really been bothering me and I would like some unbiased opinions!
We concieved very unexpectedly in October and Im now 15 weeks It was a total shock and has meant we have had to cancel our wedding as it was booked for July 20th (baby is now due 22nd July!) So a big shock and massive life adjustments.
Before this myself and my partner were both very sociable and often went out separately with our friends most weekends drinking to bars and clubs. This obviously stopped for me as soon as I became pregnant and Im finding it lonely and a bit of a struggle.
In the 4 weeks before christmas my partner continued to go out on his own every saturday night often until 5am. I was really upset as I was finding it difficult to cope with the massive life adjustment and really needed some support. I voiced how it would be nice if he could occasionally do something preganancy friendly with me like a meal or the cinema. He agreed and I thought that the problem was sorted!
There were 2 weeks at the beginning of January where he didnt go out mainly due to the time of year I think but then it all started again! We've just spent the last 2 weekends apart due to nights out and a stag do so I was hoping he might plan something nice together this weekend. But I now find out hes just organised another saturday bender with his mates while I sit home alone again.
What do you think ladies? Am I right to be upset
xx
I was just wanting to ask everyones advice on something thats really been bothering me and I would like some unbiased opinions!
We concieved very unexpectedly in October and Im now 15 weeks It was a total shock and has meant we have had to cancel our wedding as it was booked for July 20th (baby is now due 22nd July!) So a big shock and massive life adjustments.
Before this myself and my partner were both very sociable and often went out separately with our friends most weekends drinking to bars and clubs. This obviously stopped for me as soon as I became pregnant and Im finding it lonely and a bit of a struggle.
In the 4 weeks before christmas my partner continued to go out on his own every saturday night often until 5am. I was really upset as I was finding it difficult to cope with the massive life adjustment and really needed some support. I voiced how it would be nice if he could occasionally do something preganancy friendly with me like a meal or the cinema. He agreed and I thought that the problem was sorted!
There were 2 weeks at the beginning of January where he didnt go out mainly due to the time of year I think but then it all started again! We've just spent the last 2 weekends apart due to nights out and a stag do so I was hoping he might plan something nice together this weekend. But I now find out hes just organised another saturday bender with his mates while I sit home alone again.
What do you think ladies? Am I right to be upset
xx