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babystar
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Ok... so I know I am past the 12 wk mark now which I am grateful for... Soooo grateful....
However I had a scan at 9+1 and was then told that I wouldnot get any more scans till June 4th! Thats a very very long way away....
It didnt seem to bother me with my previous 2 pregnancies.. and I just got on with things looking forward to the next scan etc.
But with this pregnancy I am feelin so super nervous... I think its cos I didnt have a forum like this to come on (I didnt even have internnet access then) and I didnt know about the ins and outs of pregnancies etc (sounds silly to say after having 2 babies etc but it's true.)
I never knew about all the complications etc etc etc. And I suppose sometimes reading up on some posts in here make me nervous too. There is soooo much that can happen in there! It makes me nervous!
So with the last scan being over 3 wks passed, and the next scan not for another7 wks or something I am so nervous that somethings not right. I know we all get like that sometimes and I am the 1st person to tell ppl who post things like this to chill etc. But I have had horrid dreams the last couple of wks that somethin has gone terrible wrong. And its every night. Not just once in a while.
Now. OH has said to me previously if I am that worried etc then I can book in for a private scan if I can get the money from somewhere...to put my mind at ease. I have looked it up and theres a place near here that does 2d scans for £65. I COULD access the money... would just mean we would be a bit short luxuries wise (ie a day out for us and the kids one weekend this month etc). Is it being selfish of me to use that money?? Or should I just wait till the next scan and relax? I have said no to him 3 times now as I feel I couldnt spend the money on it as I am probably being very silly and little gummi bear will be ok more than likely.
I dunno what to do
However I had a scan at 9+1 and was then told that I wouldnot get any more scans till June 4th! Thats a very very long way away....
It didnt seem to bother me with my previous 2 pregnancies.. and I just got on with things looking forward to the next scan etc.
But with this pregnancy I am feelin so super nervous... I think its cos I didnt have a forum like this to come on (I didnt even have internnet access then) and I didnt know about the ins and outs of pregnancies etc (sounds silly to say after having 2 babies etc but it's true.)
I never knew about all the complications etc etc etc. And I suppose sometimes reading up on some posts in here make me nervous too. There is soooo much that can happen in there! It makes me nervous!
So with the last scan being over 3 wks passed, and the next scan not for another7 wks or something I am so nervous that somethings not right. I know we all get like that sometimes and I am the 1st person to tell ppl who post things like this to chill etc. But I have had horrid dreams the last couple of wks that somethin has gone terrible wrong. And its every night. Not just once in a while.
Now. OH has said to me previously if I am that worried etc then I can book in for a private scan if I can get the money from somewhere...to put my mind at ease. I have looked it up and theres a place near here that does 2d scans for £65. I COULD access the money... would just mean we would be a bit short luxuries wise (ie a day out for us and the kids one weekend this month etc). Is it being selfish of me to use that money?? Or should I just wait till the next scan and relax? I have said no to him 3 times now as I feel I couldnt spend the money on it as I am probably being very silly and little gummi bear will be ok more than likely.
I dunno what to do