ginamurr
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I am so upset. I MC'ed Friday at 5 weeks.
Today - I had a follow up with my OBGYN. They had to do an internal (yuck) and I have to get bloodwork this week to make sure my HCG is below 5.
My MC was very traumatic for me. Besides being upsetting in and of itself, it was very painful. I had the worst cramps of my life. I was absolutely shocked by the amount of pain I was in. I had to go to the emergency room and even after morphine, they were still painful.
Anyway, the part that upset me was that the Nurse Practitioner said to me that most women wouldn't even know they were preg at 5 weeks and that most would just assume they got a late, heavy period with cramping. I thought this really made my loss seem insignificant. What an insensitive thing to say!
Two minutes later she told me that I need to wait until 2 weeks AFTER the bleeding stops to resume intercourse AND I have to wait 2 CYCLES to TTC
My question - if some women don't even notice a MC at 5 weeks - then why do I have to follow this procedure?! Those "other women" wouldn't.
I don't want to - I just want to resume my regular "activities" and TTC once I know my HCG is where it needs to be and bleeding has stopped.
What did you all do? What directions did your doctor give you?
I know a few women who concieved right away after a MC and had healthy pregnancies. I have even read some things that said you can be more fertile after a MC. I don't know whether that is true though.
I need advice - Help!
Today - I had a follow up with my OBGYN. They had to do an internal (yuck) and I have to get bloodwork this week to make sure my HCG is below 5.
My MC was very traumatic for me. Besides being upsetting in and of itself, it was very painful. I had the worst cramps of my life. I was absolutely shocked by the amount of pain I was in. I had to go to the emergency room and even after morphine, they were still painful.
Anyway, the part that upset me was that the Nurse Practitioner said to me that most women wouldn't even know they were preg at 5 weeks and that most would just assume they got a late, heavy period with cramping. I thought this really made my loss seem insignificant. What an insensitive thing to say!
Two minutes later she told me that I need to wait until 2 weeks AFTER the bleeding stops to resume intercourse AND I have to wait 2 CYCLES to TTC
My question - if some women don't even notice a MC at 5 weeks - then why do I have to follow this procedure?! Those "other women" wouldn't.
I don't want to - I just want to resume my regular "activities" and TTC once I know my HCG is where it needs to be and bleeding has stopped.
What did you all do? What directions did your doctor give you?
I know a few women who concieved right away after a MC and had healthy pregnancies. I have even read some things that said you can be more fertile after a MC. I don't know whether that is true though.
I need advice - Help!