Putting it in afterwards would be pointless- when dtd the erm "thrusting" would send it up where it needs to go- where the sperm will be up waiting! There's no way u could safely get it up into your cervix and into your Fallopian tubes without the projected sperm carrying it up there!
My hubby hates lube too, but I did use it when we conceived Jace- while he was in the shower I inserted just half the recommended amount as I found a full dose too much and then pounced on him and he never knew- just thought I was "extra excited" !!
Oh right I see! I'll just put a tiny bit in without him knowing every night, if we have sex bonus, if we don't then doesn't matter at least I've still covered my self just in case.
I do feel like I'm sort of 'cheating' him though, he's asked me not to use it and I agreed. I suppose if he doesn't feel it then it doesn't matter. When we finally get our BFP I'll tell him
Thanks!
Maybe in some odd way it makes him feel like less a man? I don't let hubby see me put it in AND when he asked me what it was I said sperm food. no joke, he bought it.
Mucinex has the active ingredient of guafesin. THat is really what you need, I added the link for you, I plan to use next cycle about 5 days before O and two days after, worked for me last time
https://www.amazon.com/Kirkland-Sig...TF8&qid=1378294958&sr=8-1&keywords=guafenisen
This is what I bought
I am not joking, sweetie, you are a star! That is what I'm going to do! I'm going to tell him I've bought some sperm food (just use the Pre Seed!). What a brilliant idea.... Now I will won't feel like I'm 'cheating' him! I'm just changing the name and the purpose of it!
Yes it does make him feel less of a man, and I do feel sorry for him because he's 20 stone, all muscle, he's so macho, and him breaking down telling me he puts pressure on his self made me so sad.
Thank you for the link, I'm going to buy some. Thank you SO your help!!!!!!