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All my rants come back to my mother :D

"Well now you are finally having a girl that will be it won't it." - No, I don't just have children to have a girl. We want 4-6 children and can afford it, none of her business how many we have!

"Oh you're not going to give her a samoan name, why can't you just give her a nice english name?" - What?!?! .... What?!?!?! My husband is samoan descent and we are both from New Zealand... she lives in New Zealand!! She wouldn't be happy with the name unless we gave her the name she wanted. She still hates Brady's name.

She also likes to compare my kids to my nephew and how much better my brothers son is than B and Jake. My Mum only wanted boys, so was very disappointed when I came out. My brother has always been superior to me in her eyes. I just don't want my kiddos missing out because she has issues
 
Oddly the one thing that really annoys or gets to me is when people ask if I am excited.

'Getting excited?'

They seem surprised when I tell them, no. I don't think 'excited' is the right word. This will be my third child and while I am 'looking forward' to having the baby, I am in no way excited about having to get it out and the first few weeks when I have two other children to look after and consider.
 
I swear if anyone rubs my tummy I'm gonna rub theirs back!
 
i LOVE when people comment on my weight gain. i know i've gained weight, i've been overeating and not exercising...my clothes are tight. i have a mirror. i do the best to hide it and still dress nicely but i am not going to wear a ski mask.
i work form home and saw a coworker the other week, a couple of days later her boss called me and said "so and so said you're getting fat"...first thing out of her mouth. then she tried to cover it up and say she said that YOU said you were getting fat. then some other lady that works with my husband told him that as soon as she saw me after not seeing me for a couple of months she knew i was pregnant because of my face (meaning it was rounder). he told her not to mention it to me because it would make me upset. she told me anyway. grrr...
 
my boyfriend's cousin said our baby is a mistake
-- wow really? i didnt remember you deing in the room when we decided that i was going to stop taking birth control.

from older people i always hear "it's a lot of work ya know?"
-- really? i thought babies came out knowing everything. thanks

HA! my SIL said to my fiance "well your stuck together now"... yeah, it takes two sweety!
she also told me " if he still wants to be with you after you told him you where pregnant he's not going anywhere" ... um, if he wanted to leave he would have done it years ago... also we found out together, much like we do most things together.
She also called our baby an "uh-oh" and an "oopsy" on multiple occasions... i want to just tell her, have you ever wondered why we dont have a 5 year old.. maybe its because we know what birth control is and decided not to use it anymore!
she has also told my fiance we need to move in with my mother because we "will need a baby sitter all the time!" .. because i guess me being a stay at home mom wont be enough, i suppose i'm not good enough to be a mother in her eyes.
 
i getting so tiredf people sayin Oh you r going to have a big baby... your how far along...gagggggggggggggg i was small when i got preggo i weight 110 and i only weight 125 now so what is with these people...........
 

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