All my rants come back to my mother 
"Well now you are finally having a girl that will be it won't it." - No, I don't just have children to have a girl. We want 4-6 children and can afford it, none of her business how many we have!
"Oh you're not going to give her a samoan name, why can't you just give her a nice english name?" - What?!?! .... What?!?!?! My husband is samoan descent and we are both from New Zealand... she lives in New Zealand!! She wouldn't be happy with the name unless we gave her the name she wanted. She still hates Brady's name.
She also likes to compare my kids to my nephew and how much better my brothers son is than B and Jake. My Mum only wanted boys, so was very disappointed when I came out. My brother has always been superior to me in her eyes. I just don't want my kiddos missing out because she has issues

"Well now you are finally having a girl that will be it won't it." - No, I don't just have children to have a girl. We want 4-6 children and can afford it, none of her business how many we have!
"Oh you're not going to give her a samoan name, why can't you just give her a nice english name?" - What?!?! .... What?!?!?! My husband is samoan descent and we are both from New Zealand... she lives in New Zealand!! She wouldn't be happy with the name unless we gave her the name she wanted. She still hates Brady's name.
She also likes to compare my kids to my nephew and how much better my brothers son is than B and Jake. My Mum only wanted boys, so was very disappointed when I came out. My brother has always been superior to me in her eyes. I just don't want my kiddos missing out because she has issues