Venting Friend

[Mrs. Atole]

Hey ladies
I hope your day is going well, i just wanted to let you all know i am available via private message for any and all venting, advice or just to talk with someone. I know as well as anyone the struggle of ttc#1 is hard, and i feel for us BUT I know in my heart we all will receive our miracles

Info about me
I am 29, i am a Christian i love all people and i am not perfect, married to my hubby almost 4 years been actively ttc#1 since 2015, i got my first BFP in 2014 mc @ 10wks. started Clomid 2015 3 cycles of 50 mg,100,150 still no BFP i am trusting God to give me what he promised which is my heart's desires.

Even being a christian i have my bad days, i think why does she have kids she doesn't even take care of them or when is it my turn to get preg, i wish people would stop asking stupid questions " oh when are you and hubby gonna start having kids" AHHH stop !!
I know some people dont believe my religion which is fine all i'm here to do is support you all so please dont be taken back by me saying i am a christian. Like i said i do have my quick negative moments BUT for the most part we need to stay positive and speak positive things to ourselves and one another. God Bless and enjoy your day, you deserve it

Baby dust

 

[Littleone15]

Sending you so much love Hun xx I feel this soooo much. I lost my first ever pregnancy 3 months ago and about 2 weeks later some distant relative did the whole "married with kids yet?!" Thing, granted they had no idea what's happened and they were trying to just joke about how quickly if grown up. But it still kicks eh. Wishing you that sticky BFP soon xx keep praying and BDing X

 

[StillPraying]

Mrsa you just made my morning.

 

[Mrs. Atole]

Sending you so much love Hun xx I feel this soooo much. I lost my first ever pregnancy 3 months ago and about 2 weeks later some distant relative did the whole "married with kids yet?!" Thing, granted they had no idea what's happened and they were trying to just joke about how quickly if grown up. But it still kicks eh. Wishing you that sticky BFP soon xx keep praying and BDing X

Thank you, it's hard but I have to stay positive. I really appreciate the support.

 

[Mrs. Atole]

Thank you. Please reach out anytime. That goes to all you ladies, I'm honestly here as a friend.

 

[StillPraying]

Mrsatole are you still ttc?

 

[Mrs. Atole]

Yes i am still ttc #1

 

[StillPraying]

Where are you in your cycle?

 

[Mrs. Atole]

Where are you in your cycle?

I normally get af CD 30-31 lasts 6 days but this month I stared af CD 26 ? I'm confused as this should be week of luthel phase ... I've never stared af early and surely not 5 whole days, I've been late a couple time but never early. As of today CD 3. You?

 

[StillPraying]

Is it full on AF? That is strange. Me I'm still waiting for this mc to end

 

[Mrs. Atole]

Is it full on AF? That is strange. Me I'm still waiting for this mc to end

It seem as if it was full af but on CD 3 and it's almost gone ? I'm confused. It normally stays 5 days but I only used one pad today .. IDK

I'm so sorry to hear about your angel, I pray you get the comfort you deserve. What's your ttc Story?

 

[StillPraying]

We have one rainbow baby who is almost 18 months. We weren't ttc, actually were separating but then found out I was pregnant which I felt was God telling us to figure it out! After we found out he was gone I chose the name Luke (no idea why it popped in my head) and then I found out it means bringer of light. He definitely did that and I hope to one day be able to tell him thank you for bringing his family back together. We aren't perfect, but being together is the start. Now I want to ttc so bad and dh says he wants to try again. Sorry that was long lol

That is a weird cycle! Any outside things that could have made it off? I know when I'm exercising a lot my cycles get thrown off or eat too much junk food.

 

[Mrs. Atole]

We have one rainbow baby who is almost 18 months. We weren't ttc, actually were separating but then found out I was pregnant which I felt was God telling us to figure it out! After we found out he was gone I chose the name Luke (no idea why it popped in my head) and then I found out it means bringer of light. He definitely did that and I hope to one day be able to tell him thank you for bringing his family back together. We aren't perfect, but being together is the start. Now I want to ttc so bad and dh says he wants to try again. Sorry that was long lol

That is a weird cycle! Any outside things that could have made it off? I know when I'm exercising a lot my cycles get thrown off or eat too much junk food.

Hi
i'm glad you and your bf/hubby decided to make things work, now it's time to recognize where you failed and work at it. it's always good to improve yourself. We cannot change each other only God can but we an work on ourselves, i am doing that now in my life. it's hard but needs to be done. All babies are miracles and glad you had yours, you'll see him again
as far as af i have light pink spotting but nothing more.

 

[StillPraying]

I think that's honestly the biggest thing, realizing you cannot change each other,and that it isn't even our place to try.

Still hasn't gone to full af? That is so strange!

 

[Mrs. Atole]

update full on af for 2 days and 3rd just light pink spotting cd 4 nothing ugh.. this ttc#1 is hard but my faith is in God.

 

[StillPraying]

Sorry it's full on AF looking ahead to next cycle with you