Very upset...and kinda sad

[Samantha87]

So ,lately i have been having symptoms of pregnancy which worries me because i have been on the pill i only forgot one pill which is why im so worried about these symptoms. It would be fine with me if i got pregnant...i want one soooooooo bad But The bf is another story...he wants one just not yet.
Anyhoo, i was sitting in the bed with him talking, and i said to him " what would you think if i got pregnant? would you want me to keep it" I was just curious as to what he would say.
Well he replied with, saying you know it's not the right time...blah blah blah....then he brought up abortion...something that i thought he was against. I said to him ." i didn't know that you thought that was an option" He said... "well I'm pro-life....i can make hundreds of babies...i don't care it's up to you, wouldn't be a loss for me"
I couldn't believe he said that. So of course i got mad and rolled over. He then proceeded to tell me that im only mad because i want one and im mad because he is not ready. Im so mad .....so frustrated...i just want to scream.
I apparently got the wrong idea, i thought he wanted one nearly as much as i didi guess not
Sorry for the rant girls.....i just need to get it off my chest.....now i cant sleep.....i will just hang out here for a while till i get tired.

 

[Mommy2Kian]

Im sorry sweety, how insensitive of him to say that!!! Keep your chin up girl, i know it is easier said than done

 

[Samantha87]

Yeah it has just really got me down.

 

[lauraloo24]

So sorry to hear that, hope you feel better soon.

However, i wonder if he'd feel the same if you actually were pregnant, as opposed to just asking him a hypothetical question?

I know if i asked my OH what he'd think if i got pregnant now then he would say that he wouldnt be happy about it as we're not ready.

But if i did get pregnant, then he would come round to the idea i'm sure!

 

[honeybunch2k7]

I'm sorry he was so insensitive

 

[nadupoi]

Yeah It seems like the guy never wants it as bad as the girl (but that's just what i've heard). Then again I kind of understand why a girl would want to be pregnant more, I mean look at all the perks. lol.

But I get what you mean. i've had mean comments thrown in my face like that by OH too.

 

[Samantha87]

He acts like nothing happened last night, and wonders why im in a bad mood. I don't really want to bring it up again, so much for talking about babies. Oh well. I just wont bring anything up for a little while. Maybe he got sick of me talking about it ...

 

[Pinkgirl]

 

[jenn2282]

aww Sam i hope things work out