From the moment we decided on a home birth I knew i didn't want any family friends dropping by during labour, so when we told people our plans we told them that we would let them know when things were happening but they are to stay put. I had to be very firm with my mum on this but she has accepted it as she can see there is no room for negotiation. MIL still comments every now and then about rushing over when she hears i'm in labour but each time we have re explained that wont be happening.
So, the actual labour is sorted. But what about after? OH has read something about not allowing any visitors for 2 weeks after birth to allow bonding time and he really liked the idea of it. I cant see family being very impressed with that. I don't want people turning up the minute i've delivered, but not sure i want to wait two weeks either. So what has everyone decided with regards to visitors or will you just see how you feel at the time? Just curious really!
So, the actual labour is sorted. But what about after? OH has read something about not allowing any visitors for 2 weeks after birth to allow bonding time and he really liked the idea of it. I cant see family being very impressed with that. I don't want people turning up the minute i've delivered, but not sure i want to wait two weeks either. So what has everyone decided with regards to visitors or will you just see how you feel at the time? Just curious really!