Waiting for AF after M/C, anyone else? OCBM

[crysshae]

I think I can see something on the invert. Fingers crossed it'll turn into your super positive BFP in a day or two!

 

[Nat0609]

I think I can see something on the invert. Fingers crossed it'll turn into your super positive BFP in a day or two!

Thanks hun. I'll update tomorrow xx

 

[bluestars]

Inverted xx

Its hard to see properly cause its the computer but that doesn't look like the cheapies. Is that the one you seen the faint line on?


Xxxx

Yeah it is. It's super faint. Gonna do another in the morning xx

Yeah morninf is definately when to try again. Fingers crossed for you! Xxx

 

[Aleeah]

Hi all I just wanted to update, I took a hpt this morning after no coloured discharge for nearly all of yesterday. Anyway I got my BFP. So delighted. Rushed out and got a CB digital and showed up 2-3 weeks pregnant. Really really hope nothing happens this baby and really nervous about going to the toilet incase there is blood. Please wish we luck that I have a successful pregnancy with a lovely healthy baby at the end.

I've been away for a few days so never saw your original post but wanted to say a big congratulations! Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months!xx

 

[Aleeah]

Inverted xx

I see the line! It took me a while to see it but I see something! Really hope this is it for hun, especially as you started this thread, it's got some awesome ladies on it. Fingers and toes crossed for you, can't wait for your morning update now!xx

 

[Nat0609]

I've just started bleeding, out of the blue xx

 

[Aleeah]

I've just started bleeding, out of the blue xx

Oh no, I'm so sorry this is happening. Is it heavy? What do you think it is?? How many DPO are you?xx

 

[bluestars]

I've just started bleeding, out of the blue xx

Im not sure if this is a good thing (As you now know where you are) or a bad thing!! I hope you are ok!

xxx

 

[crysshae]

I'm so sorry, Nat. If this is AF, I hope you catch that egg this cycle.

 

[Nina83]

Hey Nat, keep us updated, the bleeding could be anything right now (you didn't mention heavy/light, brown/red, so I'm just assuming it's a tad brown and spotting)

 

[Nina83]

I think my life officially stinks right now. I hate everything, how do you guys manage to get through the day?
I don't think I ovulated- my temps are not budging. I've been having these cramps for a week, and they've come back, much more intense and it's all the time. Yesterday I almost went to the ER it hurt so bad. They are definitely O cramps, because I'm obviously not pregnant.
Took a OPK- negative, and a HPT- it's a squinter. I just hope betas come back negative.
I totally broke down last night, crying uncontrollably. I feel like I'm on auto pilot, I can't cope. I'm tired of putting on a happy face, because all I want to do is close the door and cry all day.
I just want AF to come, but have this feeling everything is fucked up right now.

 

[Nat0609]

Spotting last night, full on heavy red bleeding this morning so, CD1.

I'm a little disappointed given that I've been getting faint positives but I guess it was one big last push to get rid of the residual hormone from before.

So, time to get back on the horse now. At least I know where I am with my cycle now, presuming it now goes back to my normal 28 days.

How is everyone else doing? Xx

 

[Nat0609]

I think my life officially stinks right now. I hate everything, how do you guys manage to get through the day?
I don't think I ovulated- my temps are not budging. I've been having these cramps for a week, and they've come back, much more intense and it's all the time.
I totally broke down last night, crying uncontrollably. I feel like I'm on auto pilot, I can't cope. I'm tired of putting on a happy face, because all I want to do is close the door and cry all day.
I just want AF to come, but have this feeling everything is fucked up right now.

I had a wobbly last night but I just have to pick myself up and carry on. I know exactly how you feel. I was half willing AF to come but it was a shock and upsetting when she did. We are all right here with you

 

[Nina83]

I'm sorry Nat, it's a bittersweet moment.
But it is good that you know everything is on track
Here's to a better cycle coming up

 

[Nina83]

Thank you
I think I'm more upset that I didn't ovulate. Like my body was obviously trying to but it didn't work. It's like I'm officially broken.
I don't know where to begin. I guess we'll just keep BD every other day and I'll be hoping either AF comes or a BFP comes. Although I'm not that positive about a BFP right now.

 

[Nat0609]

Thank you
I think I'm more upset that I didn't ovulate. Like my body was obviously trying to but it didn't work. It's like I'm officially broken.
I don't know where to begin. I guess we'll just keep BD every other day and I'll be hoping either AF comes or a BFP comes. Although I'm not that positive about a BFP right now.

I think that happened to me. I had so many positive OPKs!

I hope for a BFP or AF for you real soon

 

[Nat0609]

I know I shouldn't have but just took another FRER and very faintly pos again. I hope I've not had a chemical consecutive to MMC xx

 

[Nina83]

Stop testing Love, I know this may sound horrible, but it might be best not to know
Has the bleeding stopped? I know there was a woman here who bleed, and tested a week positive later on. She must be 2 months already.

 

[Nat0609]

Stop testing Love, I know this may sound horrible, but it might be best not to know
Has the bleeding stopped? I know there was a woman here who bleed, and tested a week positive later on. She must be 2 months already.

You are right, I'll stop. If its bad its best not to know, if its good I'll pop a baby out in 8 months lol xx

 

[bluestars]

Nina- im sorry you are finding it difficult at the moment. I do have an understanding of how you are feeling. And to be honest im not sure how I get through the worst of it. I think I thibk to my self the more stressed and worried I get about it the less likely it will happen for us.

I lost my boys way back in feb and im still angry and upset about it. I thought this month I did have a sesne of peace with it all but when OH and I went to dtd past night I burst into tears. I really feel like I need a break from ttc but on the other hand I dont want to give up trying and wait any longer!

I hope you feel that we are here to help and to support and I really hope you get your bfp!

Xxx

Nat- I agree with Nina stop testing hon. I'd put it down to your body getting rid of all the old hormones !

Xxxx