Waiting for AF after M/C, anyone else? OCBM

[bluestars]

I dont like t when people bring it up. They feel like they have to for some reason. I hate hate hate it! How to make a conversation awkward. I dont want to answer them. Xxxx

 

[Lindsay109]

I dont like t when people bring it up. They feel like they have to for some reason. I hate hate hate it! How to make a conversation awkward. I dont want to answer them. Xxxx

Exactly!! At least I think (I hope) I'm at the point where if she does bring it up, I can talk about it for a short period of time without tears.

 

[bluestars]

I hope you enjoy yourself xxx

 

[crysshae]

I hope you have fun too, and that she doesn't bring it up. My sisters and my boss have only asked me if I'm doing okay. So, if anything, hopefully that's all she'll say.

 

[Aleeah]

Nat you really don't look any different apart from the hair.

I've never worn foundation or anything as have tanned skin, can never find any to match! But wear eye make up a lot, I think I look like a mole if I don't!! I'm 29 but look like a child, still get ID'd, hubby thinks it's my shiftyness when I walk into places!! And Nat I couldn't even pull out pics from 5 years ago, the fashion disasters need to stay in the past with me....!!!! I was terrible and think I'm a lot better now argueably, because hubby is good at 'directing' me!!!

I'm sad, going away with work the next few days, so sadly I won't be on here much. I'll miss you ladies and I'll make sure I read your posts on my phone, just won't be able to post much.

Nina - Thanks about the line, I had strong lines with the last little one, so I'd like to say I'm reassured but I'm not hugely. Tempted to buy a tonne of the digital conception ones, I never got past 2-3 weeks with those last time. Might get one to use in a week or so. Totally understand about being surprised, I wish I'd waited and promised myself after last time I would but just couldn't help myself. This might be weird but my hubby's auntie suggested eating an avocado a day, apparently it helps prepare the lining and to be honest that's the only thing I did do different, try that this cycle maybe?

Crysshae- Remember when I joined this thread and I told everyone to pray for me to get AF... well apparently everyone prayed for a BFP instead! So I get where you're coming from, I hope the witch arrives and painlessly leaves you quickly, so you can get onto baby making fun!!

Nat- It's so cool you might have the little one on your birthday. And I'm chuffed our due dates won't be too far apart. We can compare bumps (mine will be the one that's invisible knowing my luck).

xxxx

 

[crysshae]

A good reason to eat more avocados or guacamole! I'm in!!!

 

[Nat0609]

Aleeah - that's definitely a B(Fat)P Glad to hear you're feeling more positive I'm taking baby asprin.... as recommended by the OB that I saw after the miscarriage, she said it couldn't hurt and it might help given my medical history (I have an autoimmune disease). Anyway, I haven't had any side effects from it, so I'm still taking it.

Nina - AF was awfully short eh?

Crys - hope AF arrives soon (it feels weird saying that, lol) so you can start with a fresh cycle!!

Haha, I don't wear much makeup either and people always think I'm younger than I am... maybe it is the secret I still get ID'd at the liquor store quite often (drinking age is 19 here and I'm 31)

I got my cross-hairs on FF today Officially 3dpo!! I'm going out for dinner with a friend after work, and the silly thing is I'm feeling a little nervous because I'm hoping she doesn't talk about the miscarriage - she knows about it through the grapevine but I haven't seen her since it happened.

If get ID'd a lot too!

If she brings it up just say you've come out for dinner to distrct yourself or something along those lines xx

 

[Aleeah]

Aleeah - that's definitely a B(Fat)P Glad to hear you're feeling more positive I'm taking baby asprin.... as recommended by the OB that I saw after the miscarriage, she said it couldn't hurt and it might help given my medical history (I have an autoimmune disease). Anyway, I haven't had any side effects from it, so I'm still taking it.

Nina - AF was awfully short eh?

Crys - hope AF arrives soon (it feels weird saying that, lol) so you can start with a fresh cycle!!

Haha, I don't wear much makeup either and people always think I'm younger than I am... maybe it is the secret I still get ID'd at the liquor store quite often (drinking age is 19 here and I'm 31)

I got my cross-hairs on FF today Officially 3dpo!! I'm going out for dinner with a friend after work, and the silly thing is I'm feeling a little nervous because I'm hoping she doesn't talk about the miscarriage - she knows about it through the grapevine but I haven't seen her since it happened.

YAY for your crosshairs!!!!

I remember when I got mine, I was happier that day than when I got my BFP!! Weird bloody emotions!!! Seriously though, now you can relax and chill!

I cried today even about the m/c, I don't know how to get over it and to be honest I'd hate to discuss it with anyone, especially someone that asked me without me brouching the conversation. My advice is just say very clearly, I'm fine and don't want to talk about it. Don't stress about it before, it's none of anyone's business xxxxxxx

 

[bluestars]

Aww we will miss you Aleeah! Xxxx

 

[Lindsay109]

Aleeah - I hope you have a great time away Hmmm, maybe I will start eating avocados too, lol.

Yes, I hope she won't say to much, and if she does, that's a good idea Nat

 

[Nat0609]

Nat you really don't look any different apart from the hair.

I've never worn foundation or anything as have tanned skin, can never find any to match! But wear eye make up a lot, I think I look like a mole if I don't!! I'm 29 but look like a child, still get ID'd, hubby thinks it's my shiftyness when I walk into places!! And Nat I couldn't even pull out pics from 5 years ago, the fashion disasters need to stay in the past with me....!!!! I was terrible and think I'm a lot better now argueably, because hubby is good at 'directing' me!!!

I'm sad, going away with work the next few days, so sadly I won't be on here much. I'll miss you ladies and I'll make sure I read your posts on my phone, just won't be able to post much.

Nina - Thanks about the line, I had strong lines with the last little one, so I'd like to say I'm reassured but I'm not hugely. Tempted to buy a tonne of the digital conception ones, I never got past 2-3 weeks with those last time. Might get one to use in a week or so. Totally understand about being surprised, I wish I'd waited and promised myself after last time I would but just couldn't help myself. This might be weird but my hubby's auntie suggested eating an avocado a day, apparently it helps prepare the lining and to be honest that's the only thing I did do different, try that this cycle maybe?

Crysshae- Remember when I joined this thread and I told everyone to pray for me to get AF... well apparently everyone prayed for a BFP instead! So I get where you're coming from, I hope the witch arrives and painlessly leaves you quickly, so you can get onto baby making fun!!

Nat- It's so cool you might have the little one on your birthday. And I'm chuffed our due dates won't be too far apart. We can compare bumps (mine will be the one that's invisible knowing my luck).

xxxx

I'm 27 now. The first photo was 2008 so 22! Hope I still look the same when I'm 30 lol!

Argh, you can't go away you'll miss too much

I want to get a digi too to "cheat" before my beta on Saturday but they are so expensive!

I just hope I get to term, being due on my birthday would be a bonus xx

 

[bluestars]

What are avacados good for? Xxxx

 

[bluestars]

Aleeah - I hope you have a great time away Hmmm, maybe I will start eating avocados too, lol.

Yes, I hope she won't say to much, and if she does, that's a good idea Nat

We are on the exact same cd! Lol still not got my crossovers right enough xxxx

 

[Lindsay109]

YAY for your crosshairs!!!!

I remember when I got mine, I was happier that day than when I got my BFP!! Weird bloody emotions!!! Seriously though, now you can relax and chill!

I cried today even about the m/c, I don't know how to get over it and to be honest I'd hate to discuss it with anyone, especially someone that asked me without me brouching the conversation. My advice is just say very clearly, I'm fine and don't want to talk about it. Don't stress about it before, it's none of anyone's business xxxxxxx

Yep, time to relax, nothing I can do now, whatever happens will happen... at least it means hubby and I can take a little break from BD all the time, lol.

Yeah, I will try if she brings it up. I feel so silly about being nervous about it, but in reality, since the m/c I haven't really been out with friends on my own... my hubby or my sister have been there too and have been able to deflect questions from anyone who knew.

Anyway, I'm off to work, I hope you ladies have a wonderful day (or night depending on what time it is).

 

[Aleeah]

What are avacados good for? Xxxx

Well her daughter was having issues with conceiving and went to a very expensive acupuncturist and had acupuncture and they also advised her to eat 1 a day. There's an article here about it too:

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/...es-chance-success-couples-undergoing-IVF.html

I thought it was worth a shot and honestly, that's all we did differently. I had brought pre-seed but only used a few times as hubby didn't like it, so we stopped using it ages ago.

xxxx

 

[bluestars]

What are avacados good for? Xxxx

Well her daughter was having issues with conceiving and went to a very expensive acupuncturist and had acupuncture and they also advised her to eat 1 a day. There's an article here about it too:

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/...es-chance-success-couples-undergoing-IVF.html

I thought it was worth a shot and honestly, that's all we did differently. I had brought pre-seed but only used a few times as hubby didn't like it, so we stopped using it ages ago.

xxxx

Hmm that is interesting! haha. Just had crackers a guac for my lunch before reading that was sorta hoping that it was a bad thing haha! Thanks ! xxx

 

[Nina83]

OMG Lindsay that's so funny! I say your eh? and knew you were from Canada before I even looked under your profile! Where are you from? I'm originally from Winnipeg
And yeah, quite short! But after the D&C it was also short, not as short, but shorter than usual.

 

[Nina83]

I dont like t when people bring it up. They feel like they have to for some reason. I hate hate hate it! How to make a conversation awkward. I dont want to answer them. Xxxx

That's strange. NO ONE brings it up around me. I don't think I want them to, but no one really wants to talk about that subject. Ever.

 

[Nina83]

Nat you really don't look any different apart from the hair.

I've never worn foundation or anything as have tanned skin, can never find any to match! But wear eye make up a lot, I think I look like a mole if I don't!! I'm 29 but look like a child, still get ID'd, hubby thinks it's my shiftyness when I walk into places!! And Nat I couldn't even pull out pics from 5 years ago, the fashion disasters need to stay in the past with me....!!!! I was terrible and think I'm a lot better now argueably, because hubby is good at 'directing' me!!!

I'm sad, going away with work the next few days, so sadly I won't be on here much. I'll miss you ladies and I'll make sure I read your posts on my phone, just won't be able to post much.

Nina - Thanks about the line, I had strong lines with the last little one, so I'd like to say I'm reassured but I'm not hugely. Tempted to buy a tonne of the digital conception ones, I never got past 2-3 weeks with those last time. Might get one to use in a week or so. Totally understand about being surprised, I wish I'd waited and promised myself after last time I would but just couldn't help myself. This might be weird but my hubby's auntie suggested eating an avocado a day, apparently it helps prepare the lining and to be honest that's the only thing I did do different, try that this cycle maybe?

Crysshae- Remember when I joined this thread and I told everyone to pray for me to get AF... well apparently everyone prayed for a BFP instead! So I get where you're coming from, I hope the witch arrives and painlessly leaves you quickly, so you can get onto baby making fun!!

Nat- It's so cool you might have the little one on your birthday. And I'm chuffed our due dates won't be too far apart. We can compare bumps (mine will be the one that's invisible knowing my luck).

xxxx

I actually bought a bunch of OPK and HPT through ebay when pregnant, including 2 digitals because I thought it would be very cool! I can't wait to use it
I actually heard about avocado, but they are so expensive right now, hopefully next month they'll go down. We go through an avocado a day when they're in season. I luv it!
I'm taking Maca, which is supposed to help.

 

[bluestars]

I live on a small island where everyone knows everyone and everyone wants to know every aspect of your life. So they find a way to bring it up in conversation. I'd love for people not to bring it up for a change! xxx