Waiting for our BFPs! Please hurry :-D

[MrsBroodyPant]

My first wasn't a miscarriage. My baby had tripoidy which is not compatible with life. It is supposed to be a 'one off' chromosome disorder which means I can go on to have healthy children. But my 2nd pregnancy was a miscarriage and I will get results from the babies genetic testing on 30th January. I'm hoping it's not triploidy again but at least I should find out why I did mc.
X

 

[bluestars]

Well hope it's your last trouble pregnancy !!! My last pregnancy was a twin reversed arterial perfusion pregnancy. The twins shared blood through the placenta ! Xxx

 

[ladyluck84]

Nina I hated pregnant people! My mum kept saying "you can't say that" when I said they didn't deserve it. But I honestly believed it. Unless you have been through what we have and felt that pain you can't judge or begin to understand those feelings because I don't even understand them!! Blue never say never I didn't have the same pains this time as I had with the first

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Blue I hope your pregnancy troubles are behind u too. Pregnancy is so complicated and I find it hard to believe how it ever goes right.
I hope u get your longed for bfp asap xxx

 

[bluestars]

Im the same Mrsbroody I dont see how a pregnancy ever runs smoothly!! Xx

 

[Nina83]

It's amazing so many babies are born every day- considering what they go through!
Blue and MrsB, dont forget that every baby/pregnancy is different, what you felt last time, you might not feel next time
Lady, I try to remind myself that everyone is fighting their own battle, but it's definitly hard some times. I guess for some even deciding what nail polish to use can be a battle but hey, troubles are troubles!
Which reminds me... I need to do my nails!

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

I need to do my nails too

I've been daft and tested ha ha. Total utter bfn. I knew it would be xxx

 

[Nina83]

At least you know for sure your levels are down to zero- I don't know how you managed not to test until now.
You'll know a whole lot more next week at the doctors!

I usually do a sheer pink, but I have a gazillion colors. My self esteem at work is so low I don't put on the fun colors at work.
Maybe I'll do a vintage rosey pink for tomorrow.

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

That sounds nice nina. X

 

[bluestars]

Mrs Broody pants thats rubbish! i hate the disappointment of a BFN! hopefully that means that O can happen soon!!

I went to test today and cant find ANY tests!!! im pretty sure i had like 50!! so decided to pee on an OPK to get over my POAS addiction!! xxx

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Maybe your dh has been using them ha ha.

according to FF im 8dpo now and my temp has gone high now like post ovulation. Don't know if I believe I have actually ovulated though but my body thinks it has.

Blue what did your opk say? X

 

[Nina83]

Blue, where are you?!
MrsB, can you share your chart? I think 8dpo is a great place to be right now- you're still not out- and if your temps stay high- you must have ovulated!
You'll be around13dpo when you have your appointment- FX you get great news by then!
How long after your previous loss did AF come?

AFM, I have this odd feeling, but I've had it since AF, just that something is off. Not a lot of O pains this time, like previous cycles. I did get some AF type cramps yesterday and I feel so bloated. I'm trying to avoid the scale, but I stepped on it again this morning and I gained more weight. Since the first MC I've gained about 4 kg which makes me feel even worse about myself. I know I'm at a healthy weight, but it just sucks to know I've been gaining.
I need to get back to swimming

 

[bluestars]

Haha ... that would be awkward! The opk was just about positive.... i dont know what that means... need to order some psticks today wont get here for days!!

Nina- "where are you" in my cycle ? or where do i live? ... In my cycles im either 11,10 or 9dpo (if i O'd) ...

Dont worry about weight gain it all depends what time of the day it is! you can gain and loose pound throughout the day. Maybe a small weight gain is what your body need to have a more healthier Ovulation? xxx

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Nina u are only slim like me (am I right?) So u can afford to gain a little. I'd like to gain a bit to be honest.

Blue a positive opk can act like a positive hpt but I don't want to give you false hope. Will u test as soon as u get your hpts?

I will share my chart asap. Af came cd40 after my last loss and I definitely didn't ovulate that time x

 

[bluestars]

Well i think i will know by the time the tests come... lol

i agree a little weight is fine!! xxx

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Here is my chart, 9po now...what do u think? looks like i ovulated? Do u agree with FF? x

 

[Nina83]

MrsB, I definitely think you ovulated! No question about it!
Blue, I meant where did you go- come back with opk results!
I personally don't like OPK for HPT, although some will swear by them. And then argue about it.
Sometimes I take an OPK to confirm I'm not pregnant, if a HPT is negative, if there's a darker line I know AF is near, for me it always gets darker before AF.
Of course I always hope differently.
You're still early, go out and buy some HPT!!! FX!

 

[bluestars]

Lol cant buy them here. Need to order them online today! Hehe. AF is due on Monday ill likely get AF before the tests lol. MrsB that certainly looks like you have ovulated!! That chart looks great!

I just took the dog a walk in the freezing cold! Lol xxx

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Thanks ladies. How exciting that it looks like I ovulated. ..whoop whoop!

Well done for walking the dog. It's hard to find the motivation sometimes.
Nina hows the cat?

X

 

[bluestars]

I hate walking her in the rain and the gales. Its just a nice wee day today for it today. Xxx