Waiting for our BFPs! Please hurry :-D

[MrsBroodyPant]

Nina I hope your af stays well away!

I've been to my hospital appointment and my second loss was also triploidy and it was a boy.

Xxx

 

[Nina83]

Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry ((hugs))

Did they give you advice on what to do next? If you do go through with IVF they'll be able to find the best embryo which would give you guys the healthiest baby, you deserve to hold your little one!

Is this why most MC occur, or is there a difference between chromosome abnormalities and triploidy?

 

[bridget021182]

Hi ladies. So here is an update. I went to the OB for a weight check and told the nurse what was goin on and the doc wanted to talk to me. After running through my symptoms he wanted to do a blood draw. Now Im waiting to hear those results.

 

[ladyluck84]

Nina I'm sorry your feeling bad. Not out yet!!

Hilslo tell me about it the first trimester and the panic of it drags!

 

[bluestars]

Mrs B im sorry for your son. Is there anything you csn take to help prevent it ?

Nine ! Big hugs too you.

Bridget -did doc say what he was testing for ? Xxx

 

[hilslo]

Oh MrsB - I'm so sorry. That must be a horrible blow but Nina is right - with IVF I think they can screen for things and since they'll know what to look for hopefully it should work well!
Bridget - hope the blood tests give you some answers.

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Thanks everyone.

We are told the same as last time that it is just bad luck and no reason why the next baby wont be healthy. IVF can't prevent triploidy but it can give us a good chance by selecting the best looking egg and sperm but it could still have triploidy. Only thing we can do is keep trying. Can't believe I've had a little girl and little boy. Wish I could of kept them both xxx

 

[bridget021182]

Well the blood test results came in today. Neg on the qualitative hcg, 17 on the progesterone, and withing range on the thyroid. He isnt counting me out yet since it is pretty early. He said that when I get even the slightest positive on the a urine test to call him and start the progesterone script. He will then do another blood test. If I dont get a pos within 7 days he will repeat the hcg and progesterone test.

 

[bluestars]

Mrs B im so sorry. I wish you had kept them too! ! ��

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Thanks blue.

Good luck Bridget.

nina whats your chart doing today?

Im cd12 so going to start opks soon.
X

 

[ladyluck84]

Mrs b so how long do u have to wait to start the ivf process?

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

I've been told i will get a letter in the post once I am at the top of the waiting list and list is a few months long. So sounds quick to me! X

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Nina im sorry af got u hun xxx

bridget your temps are looking good xxx

 

[Nina83]

MrsB, I'm sure time will fly, hopefully you won't need to wait, or to have the IVF FX.

Bridget, your temps are looking good! Sounds like you're being taken are of!

Blue, how are you?

Lady and Hilslo- how are you guys?

AF came late, Saturday I was so confused. I would have been just as surprised if I had gotten a BFP, even though I didn't feel like it, or that AF was coming.
It's pretty light.
I'm supposed to ovulate on the 13, which would have been my second due date, and it's super close to Valentine's day. All very bittersweet, but I'm hoping for a little November Love bug. If so, everything will be so similar to the first time, dates, weeks, etc... I'm so tired of everything.
DH and I spontaneously scheduled a long weekend next week as well, so that will be fun and relaxing.

 

[bluestars]

Hey Nina.

Im ok. Feeling crap and down atm but cant help that I will be fine.

Did you take a test this month? Sorry AF showed hope it doesnt treat u too badly.

I cant remember if you said if you have any appointments coming up? Xxx

 

[Nina83]

What CD are you? I'm sorry you're feeling down, I wish I could help

AF is OK, just a little more cramping than usual. I can't wait until it's over to start working on a baby again. Sigh. As if that helps
I don't have any upcoming appointments. I think I'm starting to accept the fact that we might start doing treatments.
I think I'm just having a hard time letting go of what we had.

 

[Jaysbaby25]

Aww Nina, I'm so sorry! from what you said I really think low dose Synthroid would really help you. It may be your thyroid, so I would really push to get on meds at this point. I've been on it for about 2 months how so I'm hoping it's fixing whatever going on in there lol!! I'm on cd 9 and have an ultrasound tomorrow morning to check my follicle growth since I've been taking an increased dose of Femara this month. Then my dh and I are going to Clearwater, FL on Wednesday for the weekend just to get away and relax...my bdays on the 28th so it's def an exciting month!! It's crazy cause even with all this excitement, I still am in a funk about all this ttc drama. anyways, good luck to everyone this month!!!!

 

[bridget021182]

Still waiting on BFP today is 11dpo

 

[bluestars]

Im cd 14 Nina.

I am beginning to think the same. Nothings working for us either. Nina what have you tried ? Xxx

 

[ladyluck84]

Mrs b that does sound fast but fast is great!

Nina it's funny how thing work out because I'm due a week before my first due date. I'm doing well thank you. 11 weeks today and I listen to the heartbeat every day on the doppler but still not counting my chickens until my 12 week scan and we all know to well that thinks can go wrong even after that!