Waiting for our BFPs! Please hurry :-D

[ladyluck84]

I was due 30 August and I stopped myself working out my due date for the ectopic as it became such a huge hurdle for me. Hope u had a good holiday

 

[Nina83]

Good morning everyone!
Hope everyone is having a great weekend

I'm back at work, stinky stinky...
Got my blood this morning, FX everything is good. Temp rise again. I'm getting annoyed. I think I should just stop temping all together :/ Not like charting is doing me any good.

My pregnant coworker went on holidays abroad AGAIN. This is her third time flying this pregnancy, not including her honeymoon when she got knocked up. I seriously don't get it. I know you CAN fly, but why push it? And why so many times?
I don't wish anything bad happens to her or the baby, but seriously...
Why would you risk anything happening for a weekend abroad?
I do everything by the book and loose my baby- how can she get pregnant by accident, not give a care in the world and everything be just fine?!
I just don't get it. But there must be some logic- or reason. We just don't see it.

 

[ladyluck84]

Nina I do agree I did EVERYTHING I wouldnt even have a cup of tea and still lost mine!

So in day 15 I got a positive using ovulation sticks and I thought I would do one day on day 17 and it is even darker?? I did it today just in case. But seems a but too late in what is usually a 28 day cycle as would have long to implant! I mentioned having late ovulation to a doctor before and I got a "well u have been pregnant before" response

 

[Jkm1986]

Well ladies .. I took a test today cause I work at a drs office and it's free lol and to my surprise it was my first I am so excited!! Nervous too! Dr apt Tuesday .. Praying everything goes well. This is crazy!!

 

[Nina83]

Well ladies .. I took a test today cause I work at a drs office and it's free lol and to my surprise it was my first I am so excited!! Nervous too! Dr apt Tuesday .. Praying everything goes well. This is crazy!!

Congratulations!
What DPO are you?

 

[Jkm1986]

Well ladies .. I took a test today cause I work at a drs office and it's free lol and to my surprise it was my first I am so excited!! Nervous too! Dr apt Tuesday .. Praying everything goes well. This is crazy!!

Congratulations!
What DPO are you?

Thank you... My first positive I feel I shouldn't get too excited until the dr confirms it ... But today I'm 12 dpo

 

[ladyluck84]

Congratulations

 

[HappilyTTC]

Congrats!!!

 

[Nina83]

Forgot to update yesterday. My bloods came back at 64.4! The range is between 10-89, so I'm good! Such a relief.
Another slight rise in temps, I hope they continue to rise. First and second time I was started getting bloated at around 6dpo. Still nothing, but I'm telling myself every time is different- don't give up yet!
I just really want it to stick this month

 

[cathgibbs]

LL & MrsB Maybe the regulations are different in different countries? In Wales we are allowed 1 try of IUI on the NHS - I also know that in Wales the waiting list is 18 weeks just for your first apt with an FS and in England its much sooner - also hjere in Wales we get free prescription and you in England have to pay and in Wales we have to bloody pay 5p for a carrier bag grrr haha

JK Congratulations hun!!!!!!

Nina thats great news about your bloods woohooo! xxx

 

[HappilyTTC]

Nina: Woohoo to those bloods! That's great!

 

[Nina83]

Nina: Woohoo to those bloods! That's great!

Thank you! How are you doing?

 

[Nina83]

Ugh, so annoying!
A coworker of mine came back from maternity leave. We were good friends and she knows about my MC. I told her when she came to visit. Since she's been back- a month, she hasn't even asked how I am (she was also a bit self centered). OK, fine, the world doesn't evolve around me, she doesn't HAVE to ask.
She came into my office a while ago and started to complain about getting more work. She continuously said "I have a baby at home, who wants his mother, it's different now, I want to be at home with him, you'll understand later, a baby needs his mother, I have to pick him up, baby baby baby". Seriously, I almost smacked her.
I wonder if I gently remind her NOT to rub it in, if she'll get it. I have a feeling she won't, but I know she sometimes surprised me for the better, so it might be worth the try
I really miss us being friends. I'm glad she's back, other than that.

 

[HappilyTTC]

((hugs)) Nina.

I don't understand how people can be so obilivious. Maybe, if you think it may help, you should gently remind her. She will still be taken aback with it. I never understand when people say things like that- when you're a mother, you'll get it.

How do they know I don't get it? There's no need to rub it in. Ugh.



I am okay. My tummy is super sensitive and crampy right now. *I can't stop using the ladies' room* I am hoping it gets better soon or I may have to leave early. I really wanna save my sick leave, though, in case something else comes up down the road.

 

[ladyluck84]

Nina bloods sound good! I know what u mean about being insensitive u don't no if you can remember but u said that a close friend announced she was pregnant the day after I came out of hospital for the ectopic and I got really upset with her. Well now we are in talking terms but NEVER mention the baby. Well another friend said to me "that must be really hard for her all she wants to do is talk about it because exciting and you should letter. It's not as if you had a baby and it died" .....what the hell!!! That's exactly what happened weather I have birth to it full term or not! It's as if having a miscarriage means nothing??

 

[Nina83]

Lady, that's horrible of her to say!
Your friend must be sensitive if she doesn't talk about it with you, and she must really care about you! I'm sure it is hard for her, but she must understand how harder it would be for you.
I said this before on a different thread, YOU have nothing to feel bad about. She has enough people who are happy for her, and love to baby talk with her. You not talking about it won't make her miserable and make her life a living hell. Whoever thinks that the woman who lost her baby should "man up" about it and just be happy for the pregnant woman can go shove it. She'll have a baby to take home and everyone will be happy but I'll be empty handed. I'll be happy for her when I feel like it.
Sorry. That just got me so annoyed.

 

[HappilyTTC]

I agree. My husband's cousin's wife became pregnant right after I had the miscarriage and, now, in light of everything, it sure is going to be tough to ooh and ahh for her and to go to her showers and such. I have some awesome things I could help her out with since I was preparing for so long, but I don't know when I will be ready for that (especially in the next 4-5 months when she gives birth).

We all have our battles, though, and I am happy for her from a distance, but it's hard to be in the mix of it getting asked a lot of questions.

 

[ladyluck84]

To start off with when I was just trying for a baby I would feel resentful and swallow it down and acted like I'm happy for them and 2 losses on I am quite open with the fact I'm actually unhappy and it hurts....much to everyone else's disgust. it seems your meant to always be happy for others...ha I'm obviously just a cow now : )

 

[Nina83]

Lady, you're not a cow! LOL, I'm the same way. There was a whole discussion about it on FB. Sunday had a post secret said "Congratulations, you're pregnant, now shut up about it" Wording might be slightly different, but it's the same idea.
We have to put on a happy face for them, but they never have to put on a sad face for us. I'm kind of tired talking about it because the discussion yesterday was LONG (in the MC group) and it mostly just saddens me.
I miss my little bubs

 

[ladyluck84]

What Facebook group was that. Well I have a day off today and wondering what I'm going to do with myself....maybe a bit if shopping therapy!