Waiting for our BFPs! Please hurry :-D

[hilslo]

I'm baffled! Sorry! I see what you mean about your temps fluctuating a lot. My only ideas are ensuring you take your temp at the same time each morning (what time do you normally take it?)
Have you had a cold or any type of illness that could have influenced it (or made you sleep with your mouth open?)

 

[bridget021182]

I'm baffled! Sorry! I see what you mean about your temps fluctuating a lot. My only ideas are ensuring you take your temp at the same time each morning (what time do you normally take it?)
Have you had a cold or any type of illness that could have influenced it (or made you sleep with your mouth open?)

No the only one I understand is todays I overslept and didnt hear my alarm. I usually temp at 630am. no cold or anything either

 

[ladyluck84]

Mrs b that great need because they will monitor u do closely and with luck it will happen before!

Blue that is so frustrating can you seek a second opinion? Or maybe go private?

 

[bluestars]

Its too expensive here to go private. And there no other doctors surgeries where I live xxx

 

[Jaysbaby25]

Hey everyone! Just checking in, any news? Af arrived yesterday so I'm gonna start 7.5mg of Femara tomorrow. I've only taken 5mg so I'm wondering how ill respond and if anything will be different this cycle! Anyways, hope everyone is doing well!! Hopefully we'll get some February BFP's soon!!! My birthday's at the end of the month so that would be nice!

 

[bridget021182]

well FF says Im 3dpo but I am thinking a at least 5-6 dpo. started getting nauseated last night and all day today. bbs feel a little different too. had some spotting yesterday too but stopped last night.

 

[Nina83]

It is quiet here...

Blue, I do hope you're going to switch doctors. 18 months, in what world? That's ridicules. No one should wait that long.

Jay, I do hope February will be our month! Last year it worked for us, and I am praying I get another little miracle this month.
When is your birthday?

Bridget, sounds exciting! I think you were worried before about your chart? It looks great now! Nice rise!

AFM, DH has a SA next week, and we plan on taking the day off together. I really need a vacation!
I was feeling OK about this cycle, I had major AF cramps last week, which is early, I usually get them around 10dpo. No nausea or cramps around O, which was a nice little change, and still no nausea, so who knows when AF is coming, especially since my LP is so f**cked up lately. It could come tomorrow, or Saturday. Take your time mother nature.
My acupuncturist said I have a slight difference in my pulse. Yesterday I started to get a very heavy feeling, and very uncomfortable, down there. Towards the evening I decided it was just because I hadn't gone to the bathroom in a while. It hurt so much during the night. This morning I had a trip to the bathroom, and now it's a different kind of pain. Still heavy, and a bit of a burning sensation. I just feel uncomfortable.
I did a HPT last night, and don't know what to think, because I always seem to get somewhat positive tests. I used a CB, whenever I get a negative, or evap, it's very clear it's an evap, this time, who the hell knows. I'm just going to wait it out.

 

[bluestars]

Hey nina.

Not changes doctors. There no where for me to change to. There one her and thats it. I got an appointment through to see the gyn so will go to that and hope that they will help me. OH also is having a SA soon. Kinda just totally fed up now its not going to happen for us. No poi t getting the hopes up.

Your sign sound promising! I will keep my fingers crossed. Upload the hpt and we will have a look For you. When is AF due? Xxx

 

[Nina83]

I remember now, there was something I didn't understand. Is that your family doctor, or a gyno? An OBGYN will give you much better answers, there is no way he'll turn you away after a year of trying!
When is your appointment?

I'm not feeling very optimistic. It's just a waiting game, I have no idea when AF will show. Today CP is high and soft, who knows anymore.
I'm thinking about getting a different brand of HPT today and trying again, if it's negative at 14dpo- I guess I'm out, right?

 

[bluestars]

Its our GP. Hopefully the gyno will do something. Its the 27th of Feb.

Well I would ssy do.. sometimes it cantake up to 12dpo for an egg to implant. So it just really depends of you have implanted. Was there a line on the test when you took it this time? Xxx

 

[Nina83]

I always wondered about that- my first pregnancy I must have implanted quite early, because on 9dpo I already had quite a clear line. Second time I got a BFP on 10dpo, although my HCG at 12dpo was only 7.
I always wondered that if I "am" an early implanter- does that mean every pregnancy it will implant early- or does it change to, whatever baby feels like?

Hilslo, love your new ticker

 

[bluestars]

I think its a random thing nina. I dont imagine that if you implanted early last time that it will be the same next time. Im sure it depends on the egg too really xxx

 

[hilslo]

Thanks Nina. I've never had one before as I was scared I'd jinx it. Since they both failed I thought what the heck. It's going to feel bad enough if I lose another that removing my ticker will be the least of my worries!

As for implantation I think it depends on the egg though I can't talk from experience, given my short LP if it doesn't implant before day 10 I'm screwed!

Nina - sounds like you've got some good symptoms. Just remember new year, new luck. It's my mantra at the moment and really helps me get through each day.
Good luck with your DHs SA. I'm never sure whether I want them to find something or not with these kind of tests. If they find something then hopefully they can work towards fixing it but then again, you don't really want anything to be wrong so it's a bit of a catch22. What are you hoping for? Sorry if this sounds like a stupid question. Maybe it's just me that has a weird sense of comfort!
MrsB - how are you doing hon? Hoping the clomid is working its magic!
Bridget- glad to see your chart seems to have sorted itself out. I agree I think you may have ovulated a couple of days before. Are you going to test early or do you have saintly patience and are going to wait for af to be late?

 

[Nina83]

Hilslo, it's normal to feel that way about a ticker, I totally get you. Second pregnancy I didn't put a ticker, I told myself that only in the second tri I'd use one. If even.
Not sure I will use one next time.

How are you feeling? Are you 8 or 9 weeks? My eyes are bad!

DH did a SA last year, and it came back OK, but with a 7% morphology. Everyone said it's fine, and that 5% is the low end, but 10-12% is supposed to be the norm, so of course we were worried.
I know that SA is supposed to be repeated after 3 months- because it does/can change, but we never had to repeat it.
We were relieved when there was a "problem", even if it wasn't a real problem, because then it meant that we could do something about it.
I doubt we have a real problem, and our only actual problem is stress and lack of patience. Oh, that and a heartache

 

[bluestars]

I get the ticker too hislo. So glad you have settled into it a little! Do you know when your first scan is?

Nina have you tested again today? When is OH SA ? Im not sure if I want it to be a good result or not. I just want you to get your rainbow!!! Xxx

 

[MrsBroodyPant]

Hello everyone!

Nina your temp is looking interesting!

Xxx

 

[bluestars]

Have you tested again? Xxx

 

[hilslo]

Nina temps going up!!! Hope this it means good things!!!

I'm only 8 weeks. Still stupidly early. I swear time is standing still! All I do these days is work and sleep. Currently doing 12-14 manic hours a day. Horrible and would love to tell them where to stick there job! The only time I've left before 8.30 is when I've had a hospital appt. 2 scans so far and another booked for next Thursday. I dread them. So different to my first pregnancy when I patiently (well maybe not that patiently!) waited to get to 12 weeks and was nervous but mainly excited. Now they don't seem so much fun! A real matter of life and death!

 

[hilslo]

Ooh just noticed horrible grammatical error. Their not there!

 

[Nina83]

Hilslo, you're going to be 39 weeks and still be saying "still stupidly early"!
You're past one milestone already, and know the baby is right where it should be, everything is going to be fine

MrsB, interesting is not what I'm going for LOL! Seriously, my temps don't say anything, I just looked at my past charts and they're all wonky in a different way. Which just proves why I shouldn't be temping!

I am on cd28, so either Saturday I'll be officially late. I hate these long LP phases. They suck so bad.
BFN this morning, but FX I maybe ovulated later than I thought. I do know that the flu or sickness delays ovulation, maybe that happened and I still have a chance?
No sign of AF, just some dull side pains every now and then.
I just feel so sad.