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I always thought I'd want to be around 30 when I started having children. Maybe, it was the constant harassment of my mother telling me I'm too young (I'm 24). But today, I encountered a serious epiphany. Personally, I want, nay need to be a SAHM. It was something that I lacked as a child and something I really want for my kiddos, at least until they're school age.
On the flip side, I'm finishing out college and hoping to go for my Doctorate and become a physical therapist which will take another 5ish years.
My question is: Would it be harder to start my career, take 5-10 years off to raise babies, then try and go back to work when I'm around 45 or; finish up school, immediately stay home, and hope to go back to work when I'm around 35, but having taken 10 years off from getting my degree?
Any answers would be much appreciated. OH and I are literally trying to plan out our lives according to this decision. Thanks!
On the flip side, I'm finishing out college and hoping to go for my Doctorate and become a physical therapist which will take another 5ish years.
My question is: Would it be harder to start my career, take 5-10 years off to raise babies, then try and go back to work when I'm around 45 or; finish up school, immediately stay home, and hope to go back to work when I'm around 35, but having taken 10 years off from getting my degree?
Any answers would be much appreciated. OH and I are literally trying to plan out our lives according to this decision. Thanks!