sophiedaphne
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Hi everyone.
My name is Sophie. My OH & I have been together for a little over two years, and we would LOVE to have a baby. We also both know it's not financially feasible; we currently have a combined income of about $85k, but I have $40k in student loans (we are set to have them paid off in 2017, when we will both be 30 years old ).
I am an RN who just graduated in May, and am currently orienting as a new grad. Once I am done, my salary will increase greatly (around the end of this year). We've discussed the possibility of him working part-time and being a stay at home dad for the beginning (he's an EMT/Medical Assistant), but he would like to also go back to school to become an RN (he has his bachelor's in health sciences/nuclear medicine)... so he could also do that part-time.
I work nights, so we are hoping that we can do the whole "tag-team" parenting thing... a lot of the nurses on my floor have done this successfully... plus, my parents are willing to help out (his live in another state). Obviously these plans aren't set in stone and shouldn't be relied upon, but it does sound like it would make it more doable.
I was wondering what you guys thought was a reasonable monthly income in order to afford having a baby... right now our expenses, other than my loans, are very small, and we keep it that way to be more financially stable in a few years.
Just a quick introduction & hello to the forums
SD
My name is Sophie. My OH & I have been together for a little over two years, and we would LOVE to have a baby. We also both know it's not financially feasible; we currently have a combined income of about $85k, but I have $40k in student loans (we are set to have them paid off in 2017, when we will both be 30 years old ).
I am an RN who just graduated in May, and am currently orienting as a new grad. Once I am done, my salary will increase greatly (around the end of this year). We've discussed the possibility of him working part-time and being a stay at home dad for the beginning (he's an EMT/Medical Assistant), but he would like to also go back to school to become an RN (he has his bachelor's in health sciences/nuclear medicine)... so he could also do that part-time.
I work nights, so we are hoping that we can do the whole "tag-team" parenting thing... a lot of the nurses on my floor have done this successfully... plus, my parents are willing to help out (his live in another state). Obviously these plans aren't set in stone and shouldn't be relied upon, but it does sound like it would make it more doable.
I was wondering what you guys thought was a reasonable monthly income in order to afford having a baby... right now our expenses, other than my loans, are very small, and we keep it that way to be more financially stable in a few years.
Just a quick introduction & hello to the forums
SD