Warning TMI alert! Anyone sore during sex?

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  1. stellababy

    stellababy Well-Known Member

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    so my sex life took a dive over this pregnancy- went from 2-3 times a week to about once a month...
    we had sex this morning and i felt so sore inside during it. did you ever experience this? is this just a late pregnancy thing or could i have some kind of infection? i never was sore before...
     
  2. courtz_2222

    courtz_2222 Well-Known Member

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    wow, this is weird we have the same due dates..and i feel the same..and thought the same thing :D
     
  3. tallemgirl

    tallemgirl Well-Known Member

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    Actually, for me, LO is so far down that it's uncomfortable for me to DTD.
    Last time we tried, after like 2 minutes I said I couldn't and OH actually said "thank goodness, that was uncomfortable". Not in a rude way, but in a baby is squishing me way haha :)

    So yes, I get sore too :(
     
  4. kayp

    kayp Well-Known Member

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    Yep! Definitely not enjoyable for me anymore either. Come to think of it, I've seriously only had sex like 3 times in the past 7 months. My poor, poor husband.
     
  5. PrayerfulHope

    PrayerfulHope Mom of 2

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    We've only had sex a few times this pregnancy but the last week or so I've been so horny :blush: it does hurt but I can't help it!
    Everything is really swollen down there. *sigh*
     
  6. Foxy89

    Foxy89 3rd Tri- EDD- 6/2/11

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    I hurt and I havent done the deed so totally normal I think!
     
  7. jollymum

    jollymum Well-Known Member

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    Everything down there is a little sore and I haven't dtd for ages :blush: I think my poor OH has finally given up, lol!
     
  8. DeeDee1977

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    Yep it hurts me too - everything down there feels totally different. We've hardly DTD at all the last few months, I just can't bear it. It does worry me but we've talked abt it lots and DH assures me it's ok and he understands.
     
  9. stellababy

    stellababy Well-Known Member

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    sorry ladies, but i am happy at least its not just me! i hope it goes back to normal after the baby is out, i miss normal sex! LOL
     
  10. KeirasMummy.

    KeirasMummy. Expecting A Little Girl

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    yup, i also get sore during sex, like if we are carrying of for a while it gets really uncomfortable down there plus i sometimes get bh & bumpy goes soooo hard i cant move lol which makes it more awkward :S
     
  11. lynzlogan

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    i was like this untill we tried out the new durex play range. We got the massage one which doubles up as a lube....its water based too. Found it really helps! :)
     
  12. spring_baby

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    Go and get some ky jelly and put that on yrself before sex:) its quite normal to be drier than we have been before during pregnancy but lubrication sorts that out xx
     
  13. siobhan87

    siobhan87 Well-Known Member

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    Yep I get sore during sex too. Also everything seems to be a bit more swollen than normal down there, anyone else noticed this?? Mainly my 'lips' (TMI!!) and inside feels a lot more 'squishy' than normal lol
     
  14. kayp

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    Yes!! Mine are too:blush:
     
  15. lynzlogan

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    I had the "lip" swelling until i tried sudocreme, it really helped! xx
     
  16. siobhan87

    siobhan87 Well-Known Member

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    Haha I wonder what causes it! How bizarre lol at least i'm not alone! X
     
  17. kayp

    kayp Well-Known Member

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    My OB had warned about it a long time ago, and I thought she was crazy...until I woke up one day and was like WTF IS THIS?! lol
     
  18. gabbyandbump

    gabbyandbump Active Member

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    yes im the same, oh couldnt get anywere near in last night as it really hurt,
    i will try the durex range are they all safe for the baby x
     
  19. jl.

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    Just found this thread and would like to say OUCH.

    I feel very tight and my boyfriend feels it too. It's like sore during and after even though i am using lube.

    Afterwards i go sore and swollen down there until i go to sleep.

    anyone else?
     
  20. Soon5kids

    Soon5kids Pregnant with Blessing #6

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    We just stopped after our attempted fail a week ago. We just decided its way too uncomfortable for the both of us.
     

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