Hello!
Very cautiously popping in here for the first time since getting my BFP with #2.
I am due to be bridesmaid for my sister who is getting married next April. She has recently bought the dresses, and didn't know I was TTC as it took us quite a while the first time round including a loss before I had my daughter, so we weren't expecting it to happen so quickly this time. I have already tried my dress on and my sister now thinks they're all sorted, however now I'm pregnant if everything goes well I will be due to have the baby just a few weeks after the wedding, and there is no chance I can wear the dress she has bought. I was hoping she might go for a style that I could easily pay to have altered if needed, but it is an unusual style that is not going to be possible to alter to fit a bump. It is also an unusual colour so I can't even try find a similar colour and style in maternity wear. I'm not telling any family until after 12 weeks, but I'm really worried how my sister will react, and don't want to spoil her plans at all. By the time I've had my scan it will be around 5 months before the wedding. I'm guessing I just won't be able to be bridesmaid anymore which I'm gutted about, just wondering if anyone else had been in a similar situation or had any advice?
Very cautiously popping in here for the first time since getting my BFP with #2.
I am due to be bridesmaid for my sister who is getting married next April. She has recently bought the dresses, and didn't know I was TTC as it took us quite a while the first time round including a loss before I had my daughter, so we weren't expecting it to happen so quickly this time. I have already tried my dress on and my sister now thinks they're all sorted, however now I'm pregnant if everything goes well I will be due to have the baby just a few weeks after the wedding, and there is no chance I can wear the dress she has bought. I was hoping she might go for a style that I could easily pay to have altered if needed, but it is an unusual style that is not going to be possible to alter to fit a bump. It is also an unusual colour so I can't even try find a similar colour and style in maternity wear. I'm not telling any family until after 12 weeks, but I'm really worried how my sister will react, and don't want to spoil her plans at all. By the time I've had my scan it will be around 5 months before the wedding. I'm guessing I just won't be able to be bridesmaid anymore which I'm gutted about, just wondering if anyone else had been in a similar situation or had any advice?