So one of my best friends is getting married on Saturday. We have the option of going child free but seeing as there will be a lot of old uni friends there with their children who haven't seen ours for a long time or ever in the case of the youngest, we thought it would nice to take them.
However, I'm beginning to wonder whether to leave my 5 year old (DS) with my parents. My parents have very kindly agreed to visit so we can hand them over in the early evening allowing us to stay for the disco. I guess if we only took the youngest (DD), DS can have a nice afternoon with his grandparents.
I feel really guilty though about only taking DD! It would make things a lot easier for us especially as OH has to look after both of them during the ceremony as I am on wedding duties. The last wedding we went to he ran out and we missed half of the ceremony! My friend is making a big effort to make it easier and has arranged a little play area for the children during the ceremony but I don't know whether it would make any difference as to his behaviour. There will also be a kids disco prior to the main one but he doesn't like dancing and in all likelihood will not want to participate. He has also said he doesn't want to go.
I know it makes a lot of sense to not take him but a part of the reason we wanted to take them both was so we can show off our little family to friends that are used to seeing only me and OH when we meet up and have childcare in place etc. so I do feel a bit torn about what to do.
Any advice appreciated!
However, I'm beginning to wonder whether to leave my 5 year old (DS) with my parents. My parents have very kindly agreed to visit so we can hand them over in the early evening allowing us to stay for the disco. I guess if we only took the youngest (DD), DS can have a nice afternoon with his grandparents.
I feel really guilty though about only taking DD! It would make things a lot easier for us especially as OH has to look after both of them during the ceremony as I am on wedding duties. The last wedding we went to he ran out and we missed half of the ceremony! My friend is making a big effort to make it easier and has arranged a little play area for the children during the ceremony but I don't know whether it would make any difference as to his behaviour. There will also be a kids disco prior to the main one but he doesn't like dancing and in all likelihood will not want to participate. He has also said he doesn't want to go.
I know it makes a lot of sense to not take him but a part of the reason we wanted to take them both was so we can show off our little family to friends that are used to seeing only me and OH when we meet up and have childcare in place etc. so I do feel a bit torn about what to do.
Any advice appreciated!