I was verging on a 12/14 when i met my OH 6 years ago and the weight just crept on, i found a photo of us from when i was my heaviest and i shocked myself i wondered what the hell he was doing with me, dont get me wrong my OH is not slim but he's lost himself quite abit of weight last 2 months but when ever i ask him to help me with it and do it together he sorta turns his nose up like he doesnt want me to lose it even tho i no he prefers me being the size i was when i met him given the fact i had'nt long turnt 18 when we got together lol, Alot of my family are big and i just dont want to be the same as them and feel crap about myself for the rest of my days, i no some people can say being skinny doesnt make you happy but to be slimmer would make me happy if you get what i mean?!