okay so I haven't temped for awhile, I have probably the most irregular menstral cycle you'll ever see, and I'm pretty messed up. But around the 19th I stopped bleeding, I've had sex a couple times with my husband and now I'm nauseated, feet hurt like heck, back twinges, cramps (which I NEVER get), sharp pains, increased spit, dizzy. Those are typical signs but I'm also my breasts are normally REALLY sensative, I mean like my shirt irritates it and right now they aren't sensitive at all and even though I'm so horny I'm about to explode (sorry tmi) my clitoris is like asleep and won't wake up. I know that sounds stupid but earlier this week and today my husband tried to pleasure me and it was like it wouldn't wake up but all day I'm so horny I feel like I might burst. My cervix was high and soft and closed yesterday but today it is lower and hard in the middle and soft on the outside, which I didn't know that was a thing, but again I haven't been tracking so I don't know. I'm stressed out because I want this so bad, we've been TTC since 2004. Yesterday and today I had brief moments of blood but only when I wipe and it was a few streaks but I'm paranoid it's an on coming period. & not implantation bleeding. Any thoughts, sorry for the TMI. I have no clue what dpo I would be since my periods are totally random. Every cheapie test has been negative, opks were positive last week but now negative, and one faer test I took Friday was negative.