prettybirdy27
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OH and I have been slowly telling more people that we are expecting, and I am absolutely heartbroken that most people that we tell, their reaction is almost always "Oh, were you TRYING for a baby?" instead of saying congrats or being happy for us. I guess I don't understand why this is. We are 27 and 28, we both have stable careers, we own our own home, and we have been married for a year and a half. Even my doctor, upon confirming the pregnancy, cautiously asked "Is pregnant a good thing?"
Every time someone says this to me, I feel like they are implying that we are doing something wrong, or we are too young, or doing something stupid, or were being irresponsible and made a mistake.
There have been a few people, mostly family, that were immediately excited and happy, but I'm starting to get really sad at the reaction of others. Anybody else in this same boat?
Every time someone says this to me, I feel like they are implying that we are doing something wrong, or we are too young, or doing something stupid, or were being irresponsible and made a mistake.
There have been a few people, mostly family, that were immediately excited and happy, but I'm starting to get really sad at the reaction of others. Anybody else in this same boat?