What a way to start a day !!!

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  1. eeyoresbird

    eeyoresbird Expecting # 1

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    :cry: Well thats it got up this morning and she is here:witch::witch::witch: an effing day early I am so devastated. I knew she was on her way but to be a day early she is just taking the p*ss out of me. I know its only been 2 months and I am so stupid to expect so much afetr ten years on the pill but I am broken hearted. To top it off BF is working away and I really really need a cuddle. I can honestly say I have never been so upset. Why did I get my hopes up so high????

    Good luck to the rest of u hope u have more luck than me xxx

    Ill change my ticker tonight, dont really feel like doing anything right now.
     
  2. tmr1234

    tmr1234 Guest

    :hug: hope :witch: dnt show next month
     
  3. eeyoresbird

    eeyoresbird Expecting # 1

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    To top it of she has turned up with pains that resemble being trampled on by a horse :rofl::rofl:

    I know i should be happy that my body seems to have resumed a pretty normal cycle after 10 years on the pill but cant help wishing she didnt show. Suppose its better than her being late and me doing a test on sunday only to get a :bfn:.

    Its ok I can handle having a July baby, infact works out well coz BF's b/day is in July !!!

    Trying to smile, gotta get on and go to work eh.

    Thanks hun xx :hug:
     
  4. tmr1234

    tmr1234 Guest

    i know how hard it is i had 10 months of no afs and then have had 7 months of v v painfull ones not nice wish it was just easy as we get told to get that :hug: we try nealy all r lives to not get preg and wish we didnt have af then when it comes to ttc arrr its a night maer but we will get there chin up next month will be youer month and the bubs can have a b'day same as daddys. :hug::hug::hug:
     
  5. mrsholmes

    mrsholmes Well-Known Member

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    sorry to hear shes such a bitch !
     
  6. xxKelxx

    xxKelxx Well-Known Member

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    Sorry hun. Just think the sooner she's here, the sooner she's gone and you can get on with trying for that BFP again.

    X
     
  7. lisalove

    lisalove Well-Known Member

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    So sorry she arrived for you. I can relate to how your feeling. I have been a total monster today, she arrived yesterday for me. Thought I was fine about it....clearly I am not! :cry:

    I think its natural to get our hopes up, there are so many of us on here that have got :bfp: this month, it will be our turn soon.

    Keep smiling :hugs:
     
  8. rinkydink

    rinkydink Got one, getting one!

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    :hug:

    So sorry hun. Don't worry ... now she's here, you can concentrate on the next cycle - start making a plan and thinking about when you may ov etc... take your mind off it!

    :hug:
     
  9. Kimberly28

    Kimberly28 HappyMum-2boys1girl <3

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    I am so sorry the fat ugly :witch: got you!! I truly hope you have better luck next month! I can relate to you though, I too was on the pill but for about 11 years and last month I really got my hopes up to high and I was devastated when I got the BFN. That's why I refuse to get my hopes up this month and fully expect AF to arrive that way I'm all the more surprised if its good news but not terribly let down if its bad news. Take care hunny and like said above..start focusing on this next cycle and try to plan your timing and think about fun details that can surround it to take your mind off of it. Good luck hun! Take care. :hugs:
     
  10. who's_mummy

    who's_mummy Well-Known Member

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    :hugs: to you. So sorry, I got my first AF today since starting TTC and have got the most awful hip and back ache with it, don't normally get this!

    I know it is disappointing but on the positive sign at least you are having periods, after 8 years on the pill I came off it to TTC and had no periods at all for 12mths - then found out I was 5 weeks pregnant at a scan to check what was going on with me.

    Good luck for next month.

    Gemma x
     

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