I was just thinking about this, and was wondering how much contact they've had over the years? Has it been regular or just as and when? The reason it got me thinking is FOB both look after Ben 50/50 and god forbid down the line if he started hating his Dads (or god forbid mine) I'd like to think me and his dad would work together to fix it iykwim.
I was just thinking about this, and was wondering how much contact they've had over the years? Has it been regular or just as and when? The reason it got me thinking is FOB both look after Ben 50/50 and god forbid down the line if he started hating his Dads (or god forbid mine) I'd like to think me and his dad would work together to fix it iykwim.
Contact began when she was 3. It's as and when he feels like it. So he picks her up and ditches her for 3/4 months at a time.
To be honest, I think his girlfriend resents my daughter, and doesn't encourage the relationship (daughter feels she gets critisised by her a lot)
I'm sure if you and your exs relationship is good, you won't get to my situation, plus he sounds consistent regarding contact. X
I was just thinking about this, and was wondering how much contact they've had over the years? Has it been regular or just as and when? The reason it got me thinking is FOB both look after Ben 50/50 and god forbid down the line if he started hating his Dads (or god forbid mine) I'd like to think me and his dad would work together to fix it iykwim.
Contact began when she was 3. It's as and when he feels like it. So he picks her up and ditches her for 3/4 months at a time.
To be honest, I think his girlfriend resents my daughter, and doesn't encourage the relationship (daughter feels she gets critisised by her a lot)
I'm sure if you and your exs relationship is good, you won't get to my situation, plus he sounds consistent regarding contact. X
Im a step mum and we have my stepchildren 50/50 and there is a court order to say that.i feel a dad has as much rights as a mum.try and sort something out,children need both parents influence in their lives to discover who they are themselves.