Peppermint25
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Hello,
I'm just wondering what others do when you have a nice little evening routine going with your LO that works well - wind down from 6, bath, stories, feed and asleep by 7- and you are asked to go out for dinner or two grandparents houses that will disrupt this routine?
My LO is 4 months and we have established a really good evening routine with her. She is always shattered by the evening and becomes really tired DVD grizzly if we keep her up past 7 ish. When she was younger and was a sleepy little thing we could take her out for dinner and let her sleep in her pram then just get her to bed quickly when we'r home. This doesn't work at all now. She would be nosey and awake the whole time and would quickly become over tired. The last time we went out for dinner, about 5 weeks ago she managed well whilst in the restaurant then as soon as we got to the car she was so upset, tired and fussy. It took ages to get her calm and get her fed and to sleep and I felt terrible for upsetting her routine and getting her in such a state.
So I just wondered, how do you manage taking your LO's out if it disrupts their evening routines and bed times? Or do you just not go out at those times? Its s pain in the bahookee that the only times we can really see MIL & FIL is a Friday night as they are working over our way, if not its a heck of a journey to see them at the weekend and anyways, their always busy! They just don't understand when I tell them its no good being out until 8 or 9 at night as it's too late for LO. I think they think I'm being mean and deliberately avoiding going out in the evening.
Thanks x
I'm just wondering what others do when you have a nice little evening routine going with your LO that works well - wind down from 6, bath, stories, feed and asleep by 7- and you are asked to go out for dinner or two grandparents houses that will disrupt this routine?
My LO is 4 months and we have established a really good evening routine with her. She is always shattered by the evening and becomes really tired DVD grizzly if we keep her up past 7 ish. When she was younger and was a sleepy little thing we could take her out for dinner and let her sleep in her pram then just get her to bed quickly when we'r home. This doesn't work at all now. She would be nosey and awake the whole time and would quickly become over tired. The last time we went out for dinner, about 5 weeks ago she managed well whilst in the restaurant then as soon as we got to the car she was so upset, tired and fussy. It took ages to get her calm and get her fed and to sleep and I felt terrible for upsetting her routine and getting her in such a state.
So I just wondered, how do you manage taking your LO's out if it disrupts their evening routines and bed times? Or do you just not go out at those times? Its s pain in the bahookee that the only times we can really see MIL & FIL is a Friday night as they are working over our way, if not its a heck of a journey to see them at the weekend and anyways, their always busy! They just don't understand when I tell them its no good being out until 8 or 9 at night as it's too late for LO. I think they think I'm being mean and deliberately avoiding going out in the evening.
Thanks x