I do look at my life and think how easy it would be to have no kids, or even if it had just been me and zane or if I just had Corey.
I feel guilty during these times. I love them more than life and they have saved my life more then they will ever know.
I do regret having them so young, but seen as I was then a widow at 22, I wouldn't have been able to have children with the man I wanted to have them with.
And on the other hand I'm glad I had them young, so as I grow and became more financial stable, ile be able to do all the things I think I'm missing out on.
Life is hard and we all think life might be greener on the other side.
But I don't believe in regrets, they won't change a thing and just make u feel like shit.
EDIT.. I don't think anyone is ready for children, no matter how much planning it's still a huge shock to the system.
My sister never wanted children, she's now 28 and pregnant with her first and probably last, she's happy she finally let it happen, she could never have planned to have a baby, if she did, she wouldn't have ever had one