What is wrong with me?

[amcashes]

So I had my youngest 6 months ago. After 1 girl and 2 boys I wanted my youngest to be a girl. He was a boy. Why am I still sad and cry because he was not a she? Is this normal? I feel bad because I know I should be happy for what I got. I do love all my kids but I just cant help it. I am mad when I find out someone is having a girl and most of the time I end up holding back tears because I dont want people to know that I am upset and right now all of my friends that are pregnant are having girls. What is wrong with me?

 

[firsttime83]

I really think you should talk to your doctor about this. I don't think this is "normal" to feel especially once the baby is here.

I am definitely not a doctor and not going to try to sound like one, but for your own mental health I really think it's best to speak with someone. These feelings may be making you miss out on the special things with your little boy that you should be enjoying.

 

[Jadie]

There's nothing wrong with you! Lots of people experience this "gender disappointment" I do agree with above poster suggesting speaking to your dr, he/she might be able to arrange some counselling to work through these feelings and help you enjoy your LO.
Hugs to you.