What next? How can we try again?

[Chilli]

OK, so we really want to try again asap but does anybody have any tips? Should I be using ovulation kit to monitor that?Is there anything else I should be watching? checking? How do I go about it? I've heard lots of discussion of hormone level etc, all I know is that preg test now reads negative. Is there any other way of knowing when best to try. Surely just trying every evening isn't the only (although the most exhausting) solution. HAs anybody got any tips please?

 

[Peach Blossom]

Hey hon,

You could try charting your bbt hon. Your temperature rises just before you ovulate. Have a look at fertilityfriends.com it will email you info about preparing for conception and you can chart everything on there.

 

[pennypoptart]

I'm with peach blossom on this one. I'd be trying for 4 months, using BBT only in month 4, and got my BFP that month.

Also some pre-seed is good lube- which is sperm friendly.

 

[MrsO29]

Be aware that temping doesn't work for everyone. After temping for a year I discovered I had a delayed temp shift, so mine didn't rise until 4-5 days after I had ovulated.
I think opk are a good buy as you know within a few days when you going to ovulate, so at least you can save all the sex for that week!

 

[AP]

I was all for bbt charting,opks and preseed, all which can be bought from eBay. Google 'eBay Fertilityplan' and you'll find the seller i used. Every time i used preseed, i got a bfp. X x x

 

[tanya4maz]

hey hun...
try to go for natural herbs.. i have been trying fo 4 month with no lucks until i came across a product called fertilai. i have been trying this poduct for now 3 weeks since ma last period wich i missed yesterday. i have done pg test and yep i got a positive result.
AM PREGNANT!!!!
my advice is dnt try too many fertility product that can cause future problem. start with this 1st and see the result like i did.
best ov luck

 

[tanya4maz]

sorry hun its fertilaid, mispelt

 

[JASMAK]

If you got pregnant easily (I don't know your background) then I would just continue doing what you were doing. Why add more stress at this point? But, if you feel like you need to do more, or were trying for a long time, then I would start with just the OPK's. They aren't hard, you only do them for a few days during your cycle, and you probably won't obsess as much as people tend to do with temping. GL with whatever you decide.

 

[Chilli]

THanks so much again everybody. I will give it all some thought. WE have benn religously DTD since the bleeding stopped and probably far too soon and whilst initially I found it exhausting and very hard emotionally and just wanted DH to get on with it, yesterday I actually managed to enjoy it and think it's helping us at this still very difficult time

 

[Daisydo]

my advice to you is try not to get to wrapped up in knowing exactly everything...its sounds to me like your alreaddy exausted...you probably dont need more worry like temp at exact times and charts and if its right or wrong or going the way you want or not...ect ....al though those methods do keep you in chk with your body!! i have always done it naturally and i have 5 kids and hopefully a stickybean now...so let it happen and just go by what your regular periods are based on calander months...babydust to you and all

 

[JASMAK]

my advice to you is try not to get to wrapped up in knowing exactly everything...its sounds to me like your alreaddy exausted...you probably dont need more worry like temp at exact times and charts and if its right or wrong or going the way you want or not...ect ....al though those methods do keep you in chk with your body!! i have always done it naturally and i have 5 kids and hopefully a stickybean now...so let it happen and just go by what your regular periods are based on calander months...babydust to you and all

No offense, I am sure you mean well...but it just isn't like that for everyone.

 

[little_em]

I'm with a few of the girls - I say just go with the flow!

I've just had an early m/c. I was using OPK's but I never get a positive on them so have decided not to use them again this time.

I'm just going to try and relax and have as much as possible!

Although, I know that everyone is dealing with things in so many different ways, so just do whats right for you. xx