Hi,
I have read the thread and wanted to tell you my story.
I fell pregnant May 2007 1st month of trying ( Well not really trying but not been careful either!) I was on Holiday in the Bahamas when AF was due. DId a few tests whislt i was there, carried on as normal as all BFN. I tested 17days late at home and got a faint BFP. A few days later i had a tiny tiny pink spot when i wiped so went to the docs to be on the safe side. Was sent for an early scan and it showed i was having an ectopic pregnancy. Luckily the pregnancy wasn't progressing so i was able to wait and pass it naturally. This is why it took so long to get the Pos test as the baby hadn't implanted in the womb which is when the HCG levels begin to rise.
I began bleeding 30/06. My next period arrived approx 3/08.
We began trying after this AF as i was told to wait 1 month. I fell pregnant in the October and was sent for an early scan in December as you are at higher risk of having another Ectopic once already having one.
The scan showed i was pregnant but was going to have an early MC. HCG levels were around 70 when they should have been way over 23,000! I began bleeding a few days later.
This time we began trying straight away.
I found out i was expecting again in June, and had a healthy pregnancy with my baby girl. I was due the same day with her as i was the 1st pregnancy that i had my ectopic! Scary!!
We decided we wanted another so began trying Nov last year and fell pregnant that month and i am currently 24 weeks pregnant!
SO please don't think you will have recurrent losses, this rarely happens and you are at no higher risk of having a MC if you have already had 1!
Good luck xxx