What the heck... are all doctors this negative? Update...

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Ok, I posted my bfp (like 5/6 tests) so it's not like I'm imaginging it. Also, before my doctor appointment, I took a clearblue digi and it popped up pregnant in less than a minute.
Anyways, I get to the doctors office. The nurse is really nice and I show her my tests and she said it looks like I am.

I pee in a cup. Doctor comes in. She's like well the urine test came back negative, so it looks like we are done here. And I was like umm wait, what about these tests? And she was like they don't count if the line didn't show up right away. I told her about the digi from this morning and she ROLLED HER EYES at me. She said fine let's do another urine test.

The bathroom has a little door where you put the cup and another door to the lab and I heard them talking in here (this women thinks she is pregnant so lets do another and get this over with I have other patients) and I heard the nurse say (but I think these are positive I see some lines).

So like 2 mins later the doctor comes back into the room and was like "that was negative too, so it looks like you aren't pregnant". She also told me to not come in until I miss my period and I informed her that it was a few days late and she rolled her eyes AGAIN and finally let me do the blood test (she refused it the first couple times I asked).
Even the nurse who took the blood said that she thinks the tests were positive and wasn't sure why the doctor said they were negative.

I won't have the results back until tomorrow, but I can tell this woman is going to be a nightmare. Does anybody have any similar experiences? I am beyond annoyed right now.

Update:
Unfortunately, I started bleeding around 5pm and then passed a ton of bright red clots. I can't sleep because of the cramps. Thanks for being so supportive, it means a lot.
 
Doctors can be reall a$$holes, and tend to forget they are working FOR you!! I think your best bet is to go one of those planned parenthood testing places, they do a urine test, but they really do look at the lines and will even give you a paper stating you are pregnant, I went a few years back when didn't have insurance, they are free and nicer than any expensive doctor.
 
Well this woman was just a gp. I get the blood test results back tomorrow and after that I'm finding somebody new.
Even if I was having a m/c, the hcg levels wouldn't have gone to 0 over the course of one hour.
 
Some doctors are just very clinical!!!, there like to see patients try and fix them and back out the door again, without the care side of being a doctor!

Whereas some are genuinely nice and lovely... What type of blood test did you get??? this will hold all the answers and its a more accurate way to detect pregnancy than their urine tests.... which ive been told arent exactly the most sensitive things...

I wish you the best and when you get the results i would certain gloat to that GP thats for sure :D x
 
That's just awful! :(

As soon as you get the results, switch doctors AND report her to BBB. Also, leave a review for her online at all locations you can google. As a patient, I would want to be aware of her manner with patients before choosing her as my OB.
 
Some Doctors are just rude and make you feel like your wasting their time... you have to be dying on the floor before they will take what you are saying seriously. I had a Doctor like that.

Get a new one hun. :D Good luck on getting that :bfp: too!!! :D
 
Congrats on you :bfp: dont let those damn stupid doctors put you down hunny....XOXOXOX if you need anything us girls are here for you! We know your pregnant without a damn doubt and they will to when they get blood results stupid damn doctors :( OMG
 
hey hun i could have wrotd this myself samething happend at drs and i get my blood test bk tmorow to gd luck xx
 
Are the tests at the doctors office just less sensitive? Out of curiosity I took another dollar test... this showed up like 5 seconds after I used it (not kidding this is RIGHT as soon as the dye passed over the control line). This is my first pee after the doctors office and it's been less than an hour hold. What the heck?

https://i.imgur.com/Pxdgn.jpg
 
And here it is at the 3 min mark. How on earth were the doctors tests negative I don't get it.

https://i.imgur.com/l8gZe.jpg
 
That's terrible, you should complain. Pregnant or not, a doctor should not treat a patient that way!

Congrats btw
 
oh and im also on thyroid medication thats clearly bfp get another dr xx
 
In my case it wasn't the doctor, it is the nurse that works for him, and the lady at the desk told me that my doctor wasn't in on a certain day when I called, but his nurse acted like she went back to talk to him, and then came to the phone, explained that I wasn't pregnant, and I needed to wait for my period and better luck next month. I want to know why I keep getting positives and then they fade away.... I want to know why HCG is present in my body if I am not pregnant.... I just want answers and it is like I have to go through her to get to him! He is a nice doctor and I called today to get into see him, they tried to schedule me for next month. I told them I'd find another doctor, and they put me in for thursday at 9.... why couldn't they give me thursday at 9 to begin with??? Just a bunch of BS at that facility, good doctor, bad people behind the desk and nurses who want to run the show all the time.
 
Drumroll please...

5 min mark

https://i.imgur.com/04Riw.jpg

Screw that doctor.
Btw I am 15 dpo with 28 day cycles, so my period is late. What more proof do I need before she believes me? Lmao
 
That sucks beth. Is there a nurse there that is actually nice? In my case, the nurses were convinced I'm pregnant and were excited but the doctor was a real b about it.
 
That's ridiculous!!! Man that would just tick me off to no end....go in and bring ur test and pee on that and give it to the nurse LOL
 
Stacey, what medicine are you on? I'm on tapazole and I read that it can cause birth defects but it said in rare cases. Do you have to be monitored a lot with your pregnancy?
 
Wow what a stupid doctor..... that is quite clearly a positive.... even a blind man could see that blaring back at em.....
Congrats on your :bfp: btw xxx
 
wow that is very dark! What kind of useless tests are your doctor using?!
 

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