I don't really find timing sex, charting, OPK's, looking at cm ect, stressful. I'd find not knowing my cycle stressful and missing a chance stressful. Stressful would be OH deciding to cum in an alternative place cos we are just going-with-the-flow even though I know I'm ovulating cos its know my body. Stressful would be coming on a period not having done all I could.
I only use a fertility monitor to help me decide when we are going to have baby making versus "fun" time lol But yes, it helps me relax as it cuts down the time to get pregnant, I understand that feeling! I think for me personally temping would drive me a bit bonkers though, it seems like a lot of work to me
This is the first time I've tried temping, 4th time TTC. I'm a bit forgetful at it, and it can be a pain. I started charting on fertility friend after my miscarriage just to keep a track so it was kinda a natural progression to do my temp as well.
And I completely agree re baby making versus "fun". Our fun sex isn't always compatible with making babies!