Gemini19156
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I'm curious to know when other moms-to-be first felt like they really 'connected' with their baby?
I'm not really feeling that yet, and starting to feel kind of bad about it I've heard a lot of people say that it happened for them when they first saw the baby on ultrasound or heard it's heartbeat, but we got to do those things at our appointment last week and it's still just not happening for me? Is that normal?
I've gotten all wrapped up in my head thinking that something is wrong with me for not already feeling in love with my baby...It might also be worth noting that it's been a really stressful season in our lives - moving, changing jobs, and the financial stress that comes with those things. So I feel like I haven't really been able to just "enjoy" being pregnant or focus on connecting with my baby :/ And on top of it all, my stupid guided pregnancy meditations keep telling me to make sure my body is a "calm, safe place for my baby" which makes me feel guilty because right now baby is swimming in an ocean of stress
Sorry for the rant - hoping to find some encouragement here
I'm not really feeling that yet, and starting to feel kind of bad about it I've heard a lot of people say that it happened for them when they first saw the baby on ultrasound or heard it's heartbeat, but we got to do those things at our appointment last week and it's still just not happening for me? Is that normal?
I've gotten all wrapped up in my head thinking that something is wrong with me for not already feeling in love with my baby...It might also be worth noting that it's been a really stressful season in our lives - moving, changing jobs, and the financial stress that comes with those things. So I feel like I haven't really been able to just "enjoy" being pregnant or focus on connecting with my baby :/ And on top of it all, my stupid guided pregnancy meditations keep telling me to make sure my body is a "calm, safe place for my baby" which makes me feel guilty because right now baby is swimming in an ocean of stress
Sorry for the rant - hoping to find some encouragement here