Unexpected212
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We're all entitled to our opinions. I think you will struggle to find anyone who has dealt with infertility in any form who does not find Facebook announcements insensitive though. People who haven't struggled to conceive can never understand the pain. I think the above responses prove that and it's why so many of us stick to the Assisted Conception boards even after we conceive. We are in the minority so don't expect everyone to agree, like I said its a shame that those of us who eventually get pregnant after struggling feel like we can't shout it from the rooftops. We would love to too, however feel too guilty as we remember how it used to make us feel.
Of course you are entitled to your opinion. I think it's great that some people are really sensetive and thoughtful about announcements.
I may not have struggled to conceive but I did have a miscarriage which obviously broke my heart. Announcements made me feel sad but I also felt happy for that person.
I just have close friends and family on mine. I know that nearly all of the people on my facebook either have children or are way off wanting any.
The one lady I do have that was TTC for about 5 years and had successful IVF posts about her pregnancy every single day. That doesn't bother me. I'm happy for her.
I'm not saying anyone is wrong and right. Everyone feels their own way about Facebook. For example I post loads of pics of my son but I know some people who don't post any because they think it's wrong.
With my first pregnancy I never moaned on Facebook about anything really. Just put up a 9 week scan. 12 week scan. Gender scan. 20 week scan and our 3D scan to let everyone know things were going according to plan and pics of the nursery we did and little outfits we'd bought.
I wanted to share my happiness with the family and friends I don't see much.
I guess I never really thought till now just how hurtful it could be to those struggling and I'm sorry if I came across offensive I just personally want to share it on Facebook.
I mean a couple of people I knew chose the moment I told them I'd had a miscarriage to say 'Oh that's a shame, I'm pregnant!' That's insensetive!