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Belle2528
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So, obviously we've gotten our BFP after thinking it would never happen!! My main worry at the moment is my bestest friend in the whole wide world! Her and her OH have been having similar issues to my and my husband and have just started treatment for IVF. My dilemma is, when do I tell her?
I always said I'd tell her first. It was always going to be hard when one of us got pregnant. As much as we love each other and would be pleased for the other it will still be difficult. My husband and I have decided we won't tell anyone until after our 12 week scan (currently 5 weeks!) the issue is that coincides with my best friend finding out whether her attempt at IVF has been successful. So, if I tell her early I'm worried she'll put even more hopes and expectations on this IVF cycle and the last thing she needs is more stress. Or, do I wait until 12 weeks when she will also be finding out whether her first IVF was successful?!
Oh what to do?!?!
Thanks in a advance
Belle xxx
I always said I'd tell her first. It was always going to be hard when one of us got pregnant. As much as we love each other and would be pleased for the other it will still be difficult. My husband and I have decided we won't tell anyone until after our 12 week scan (currently 5 weeks!) the issue is that coincides with my best friend finding out whether her attempt at IVF has been successful. So, if I tell her early I'm worried she'll put even more hopes and expectations on this IVF cycle and the last thing she needs is more stress. Or, do I wait until 12 weeks when she will also be finding out whether her first IVF was successful?!
Oh what to do?!?!
Thanks in a advance
Belle xxx