NickyT75
RIP Sophie my angel
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Thanks girls
Niki - I hope you don't take offence to me saying this... (I don't want to appear ungrateful or argumentative) but I need to get this off my chest...
I don't like Sophie being referred to as a mc, she was a perfect little girl who was born prematurely so was unable to survive.
She lived for nearly 10 mins after she was born & I don't feel like the term 'miscarriage' does justice to her.
Im not trying to upset anyone who has suffered a mc as i know from experience how awful they are (had one at 10.5wks previously) but after actually giving birth to a living little girl I get upset when she isn't recognised as a real person.
I know it certainly wasn't your intention to upset me hun & I really appreciate you trying to help , but I just needed to clarify what happened.
I hope this hasn't come across in the wrong way - it's really hard to put into words the way I am feeling xx
Niki - I hope you don't take offence to me saying this... (I don't want to appear ungrateful or argumentative) but I need to get this off my chest...
I don't like Sophie being referred to as a mc, she was a perfect little girl who was born prematurely so was unable to survive.
She lived for nearly 10 mins after she was born & I don't feel like the term 'miscarriage' does justice to her.
Im not trying to upset anyone who has suffered a mc as i know from experience how awful they are (had one at 10.5wks previously) but after actually giving birth to a living little girl I get upset when she isn't recognised as a real person.
I know it certainly wasn't your intention to upset me hun & I really appreciate you trying to help , but I just needed to clarify what happened.
I hope this hasn't come across in the wrong way - it's really hard to put into words the way I am feeling xx