Where does it catch you out?...

[Miss Rach]

Hey ladies...

Happy Friday...

Well there I was thinking I was all fine when a "moment" arrived. Was in the middle of an airport this morning and suddenly felt so hollow about the thought of not being a Mummy this Christmas. Cue unstoppable tears - right in the middle of the dept lounge! Hubbie was with me and cheered me up and I managed to sort myself out. I hate that this can just grab me out of nowhere!

Does this catch you unawares? What are some of the more unexpected times for you ladies?

Rach x

 

[DAISYPRENCESS]

Hi, Rach,

I don't cry in front of people easily but it upsets me the most when we start quarrelling with my hubby. This can happen even on the street. I am trying to be strong and not to show what I feel in front of people. I just don't want pity . When I am very upset this website helps me. People here can understand and give support.

Hugs to you and have hope.

 

[Zeri]

When Af shows...I usually go to a quiet place and cry for a bit...

 

[madtowngirl]

When Af shows...I usually go to a quiet place and cry for a bit...

Me too. Every time she shows, even when I'm expecting her, I just bawl.

When we were leaving my in-laws' house last night, it hit me that I should have a baby right now, and I lost it. DH doesn't know what to say, so he just says "it's fine!" It's not fine. I just want to be a mommy.

 

[Emmi]

It's when AF turns up for me too so also when I feel PMS - the starting of cramps makes me realise it's another failed month. The hurt is unbearable.....I was swimming yesterday and I couldn't stop crying, luckily being in water made it all less obvious

Big hugs to you all ladies - I really hope and pray that our moment will finally come.

x

 

[WhiteOrchid24]

I never cry in public (although will bawl at even happy things on TV - go figure!) but today (day 1 of cycle 22) I was shopping and walked past the baby section and had to do everything in my power to not cry..... it's definitely hit me hard this month

 

[Hatethewait85]

Yesterday I was watching My Sister's Keeper at my mom's house and had to go to the bathroom to hide the tears. I was thinking I'll never have to fight a lawsuit from my daughter looking for medical emancipation and that made me sad. I am completely wacko!!!

 

[Myshelsong]

I was driving to my friends house for a visit during a snow storm and I just started bawling. Cried the whole 20 minutes it took to get there.

 

[Teach2]

This month is the first month I cried which is good going considering we have been trying for nearly 2 years. This AF I cried and whenever people say "You next" etc I get teary which is so embarrassing I find an excuse to leave or quickly change the subject.