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MamaLoCo
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A lot of people like to complain about getting unsolicited advice while they're pregnant - so much that people warn you about all the unsolicited advice you'll be getting and to just do what you feel is right.
I don't know what I'm doing...when people have told me things, I really just want to sit them down and ask them to tell me more. I'm the person who DOES want advice and for my mom or sister to come right when baby is born and tell me what's what (unfortunately mine can't...send me yours!)
With that said, I kinda feel like I've been jipped. Tell me what to do!
I'm due SOON. Based on my ovulation, I'm due in 7 days; based on my LMP, I'm due in 11 days. My last official day at work was yesterday. I'll be going in for a few hours to tie up loose ends tomorrow but that's it...
I know I should be cleaning the house...because I haven't had the energy to keep up with that, and hubby has been spending more time taking care of me lately.
Please flood me with your advice. Baby has a place to sleep, cloth diapers and disposable diapers to poop in and hopefully boobs to eat from.
Should I be teaching myself how to use the breast pump by trying it out?
What are some things that I NEED that I might not have?
I know I need to clean, pack my hospital bag, maybe take a hospital tour, organize her clothes and diapers, and find a daycare for when I return to work, but after that I feel like I'm missing something. Is there anything I need for me, or hubby?
Did any of you create a budget for while you were on leave? I have no idea how much a baby costs, how much daycare will be, or how much they cost in formula in case my boobs don't produce.
Do I have enough clothes? How many swaddles and blankets do I need? Are two sleep sacks enough? Do I even need a sleep sack? Do I really need a tub within a tub? Should I have certain clothes for recovery? When will I fit into normal clothes again?
I'M FREAKING OUT, MAN!!
I don't know what I'm doing...when people have told me things, I really just want to sit them down and ask them to tell me more. I'm the person who DOES want advice and for my mom or sister to come right when baby is born and tell me what's what (unfortunately mine can't...send me yours!)
With that said, I kinda feel like I've been jipped. Tell me what to do!
I'm due SOON. Based on my ovulation, I'm due in 7 days; based on my LMP, I'm due in 11 days. My last official day at work was yesterday. I'll be going in for a few hours to tie up loose ends tomorrow but that's it...
I know I should be cleaning the house...because I haven't had the energy to keep up with that, and hubby has been spending more time taking care of me lately.
Please flood me with your advice. Baby has a place to sleep, cloth diapers and disposable diapers to poop in and hopefully boobs to eat from.
Should I be teaching myself how to use the breast pump by trying it out?
What are some things that I NEED that I might not have?
I know I need to clean, pack my hospital bag, maybe take a hospital tour, organize her clothes and diapers, and find a daycare for when I return to work, but after that I feel like I'm missing something. Is there anything I need for me, or hubby?
Did any of you create a budget for while you were on leave? I have no idea how much a baby costs, how much daycare will be, or how much they cost in formula in case my boobs don't produce.
Do I have enough clothes? How many swaddles and blankets do I need? Are two sleep sacks enough? Do I even need a sleep sack? Do I really need a tub within a tub? Should I have certain clothes for recovery? When will I fit into normal clothes again?
I'M FREAKING OUT, MAN!!