So DH will more then likey be away for christmas, so I didnt know whether to have christmas at my house, with just me and A, or go over to my mum's, which would mean sleeping over Christmas eve ( as we spend it at my nan's) and then again on christmas day as we always spend boxing day at my mum's. Thing is, I dont really want to spend christmas on my own with just A as that defeats what christmas is all about, family and spending time with them. I just know it will be so cluttered at my mum's and everyone will be faffing about with their presents and I will still be getting A dressed and eating breakfast. If we stayed at home, then I would probably see if my mum, dad, brother and sister wanted to come round late afternoon/early evening to see A and what she got. What would you do in my situation? Im so confused. I so wanted to spend my first christmas with A, as our little family, just DH, A and me.