I haven't told anyone about WTT. I do sometimes really want to tell my mum, but I don't know how she would take it. She would love to be a grandmother, but I think I am going to need IVF and my mum disagrees with IVF as it is 'unnatural' - we have discussed that her taking antihypertensives and other medications is also technically unnatural and she did agree with me on that!
I don't know how I'll be when I actually start TTC. I am probably going to need a lot of help practically at home. I'm planning on going to Denmark, and initially thought it would involve a few overnight stays. Having read around it a bit, I could be there for a few days. I have a number of animals at home. Whilst I could leave them one night and they would be fine, anymore and someone would need to come and see to them for me. I could send my dogs to hers and just say I was going out/work/something but there are all the others which would need seeing to.
Plus, if I did get a BFP, I plan to wait until the 12 week scan before telling anyone. I found out my best friend was pregnant at about 4 weeks and she didn't want to tell anyone until 12 weeks. I was begging her the day after I found out to be allowed to tell my mum. I was so excited for her I just couldn't keep it to myself!
Work would be a problem, too. I would need to tell them as early as possible and they would find out anyway when I was referred for my booking appointment and scan. But I wouldn't really want my colleagues finding out before my family.