Why does this always happen? :'(

[rosepetals123]

Firstly, hugs xxx. Secondly, you are at a fragile state of being right now. You DONT need to be stressing and upset. If you are in fear of your ex hurting your baby or you, I would definitely head down and get a Restraining Order (Protective Order) against him. This will keep him from being able to make ANY contact with you. If you're going to do this you need to make sure you keep all records of threats and demeaning messages. I'm sure your current boyfriend will help you see that you are serious and not lying as you would do anything it takes to get this crazy person out of your life.


But, your boyfriend needs to have trust in you. Relationships are really hard without trust. A mature, loving partner will sit down with you and discuss things rationally instead of screaming and accusing. Even if that means you need to take a little time apart and think exactly how you feel and what actions need to be taken. Good luck sweetie xxxx

 

[JJKCB]

im sorry about you ex, some people are just nasty... block him as best you can, NEVER reply or acknowledge him or he will get worse and if he persists you can report him for harassment

out of curiousty how old are you?
just noticed you said you where 14 with your last but you siggy says that was last year so you would be 15 right?

its not right but doctors do tend to take younger people less seriously, ive noticed I get a lot more respect from doctors since I turned 21

if you had no medical intervention with your last that would mean no medical records which is what the doctors require to judge your risk levels (im not saying you are at all but their are some horrible women make up horrible lies about these things so doctors dont tend to believe things that arnt recorded - there was a woman on tv yesterday that convinced everyone she not only was pregnant but had a 6 month old and it was all made up just to try a trick her ex he even gave her child support for a baby that never existed)

as for the ultrasound thing ive never known any have more than 3 even if you are a risk

2 is standard protocol here (1 and 12 weeks, 1 at 20 weeks and some people get a dating scan at an estimated 8 weeks using standard cycle lengths if they have suffered fertility problems with unregulated long/short varying cycles) im quite high risk as I have kidney damage and also my son got tangled in his cord and went into sever distress (we where in there over 8 hours and he was still born and revived) but still only got the standard 2 scans though out the pregnancy

 

[tinymumma]

im sorry about you ex, some people are just nasty... block him as best you can, NEVER reply or acknowledge him or he will get worse and if he persists you can report him for harassment

out of curiousty how old are you?
just noticed you said you where 14 with your last but you siggy says that was last year so you would be 15 right?

its not right but doctors do tend to take younger people less seriously, ive noticed I get a lot more respect from doctors since I turned 21

if you had no medical intervention with your last that would mean no medical records which is what the doctors require to judge your risk levels (im not saying you are at all but their are some horrible women make up horrible lies about these things so doctors dont tend to believe things that arnt recorded - there was a woman on tv yesterday that convinced everyone she not only was pregnant but had a 6 month old and it was all made up just to try a trick her ex he even gave her child support for a baby that never existed)

as for the ultrasound thing ive never known any have more than 3 even if you are a risk

2 is standard protocol here (1 and 12 weeks, 1 at 20 weeks and some people get a dating scan at an estimated 8 weeks using standard cycle lengths if they have suffered fertility problems with unregulated long/short varying cycles) im quite high risk as I have kidney damage and also my son got tangled in his cord and went into sever distress (we where in there over 8 hours and he was still born and revived) but still only got the standard 2 scans though out the pregnancy

Haha, I'm 17 actually. Lost the first at 14, the second at 16. I'm 18 in May.

 

[tinymumma]

Thank you all for the love
WENT FOR MY FIRST SCAN TODAY AND IT WAS AMAZING!! Measured at 7+5 (one day behind, not a big deal apparently) and a pounding little heartrate of 158. Absolutely over the moon

 

[AussieGamer]

Glad to see u had a scan done and can now relax a little. I had my first scan at 7+4 and measured 7+2, which doc said is fine and normal too.

My next scan is the NTT and i'll be 12+5 (only day they could book me in).

I havent asked how many scans I can get, I'm just saying yes every time the doc offers to send me for one. The first one he requested to be bulkbilled and it was, tho this next one is $160 partially rebated.

P.S. I'm not a teen (28) but ur situation caught my eye. So glad u found another doctor- especially with your history.