My dh believes that no one has the rights to have a baby and if it happens, it is a miracle from god. So, naturally, I thought that means he's not bothered whether we ended up childless or not. But then he told me that v will try everything in the power of science to conceive one and but has not given a deep thoughts on ivf and etc. One night, v argued. He told me off big time not to b negative with others getting pregnant. Then I said that I have the rights to b upset because I feel sorry for myself. He answered me back saying that I never asked how he felt when I get bfn. So there u go! I think men is complicated than they think themselves. They will get more involve when times come. I think they r as desperate as us to have a child but express it in a deferent way.