daopdesign
Mummy to 3 wonderful boys
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My boy is at the end of a row of 4 and next to him is an unkept grave, next to that one is a kept grave and next to that one is an unkept one!
I don't get it, why have a buriel if you're not going to maintain and visit your babies memorial? It really makes me sick. They don't even have a headstone or plack, nothing, not even a bunch of flowers.
Today I built a lovely little fence and stuck some windmills in with a poem for my boy but it really does sadden me when I look at the plots next to him as I find myself splitting my flowers between mine and the one next to him! I can't understand why someone chose to have a buriel but then doesn't visit. Bah.
I don't get it, why have a buriel if you're not going to maintain and visit your babies memorial? It really makes me sick. They don't even have a headstone or plack, nothing, not even a bunch of flowers.
Today I built a lovely little fence and stuck some windmills in with a poem for my boy but it really does sadden me when I look at the plots next to him as I find myself splitting my flowers between mine and the one next to him! I can't understand why someone chose to have a buriel but then doesn't visit. Bah.