why is life so unfair?????

Discussion in 'Miscarriage Support' started by charlottecco2, Dec 14, 2009.

  1. charlottecco2

    charlottecco2 Mummy of 2

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    :cry: :cry:

    I started to miscarry for the second time since september yesterday morning, which is enough for me too deal with right now.

    But on top of that, as anyone who knows me, you will know my 17month Jaiden has kidney failure and the doctors have just rang me to tell me he has e coli, this is NOT good news for such an ill child. I am now sat on the train to hospital, so that we can be admited and he can start being injected with antibiotics.

    I am cramping like mad and feel horrendous, now I am petrified about whats going to happen to Jaiden. :cry: :cry:

    What did i do to deserve all this.
     
  2. scrummy mummy

    scrummy mummy Baby number 3 on board x

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    o huni i cant imagine how you feel right now- lots of luck to Jaiden and :hugs: for you too - i will keep my fxd for your little man :hugs:
     
  3. hannah76

    hannah76 Well-Known Member

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    so sorry for your tough times right now... no one deserves to go through all that especially not all at once. take care x x
     
  4. clairebear

    clairebear Mummy to 2 handsome boys.

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    Hunni :hug: i so sorry your having to go through this it isnt fair at all!! you dont deserve it. x fingers are crossed for jaiden. thinking of you chick x x
     
  5. lolly25

    lolly25 mum~DD,DS,DD and Angel x

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    Oh Hun im so sorry to hear what your going through right now, this isnt fair , takecare x x x x:hugs:
     
  6. cupcake

    cupcake Mommy of a gorgeous boy!

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    oh no thoughts and prayers with u xx
     
  7. Drazic<3

    Drazic<3 You got the love <3

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    Oh darling,
    I am sorry for your losses, and love and :hugs: to your brave little fighter.
    Thinking of you.
     
  8. the_key2005

    the_key2005 Proud Mummy To Kai

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    oh hun, so sorry for everything you are going through at the moment. Sending you loads of Hugs. xxx
     
  9. Las78

    Las78 Mum to 3 beautiful girls

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    :hugs: Oh hun, you did nothing to deserve this, you are having a rough time and my heart goes out to you. I hope little Jaiden gets well soon and I'm so very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you all x
     
  10. bumpyboo

    bumpyboo Mummy to 3 angels x

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    Big Hugs to you!! and bless little Jaiden I hope he makes a speedy recovery I know how terrible e.coli can be as my nephew got it last year which also led to kidney failure but now hes fine and a normal 5 year old! Stay strong there are lots of people thinking about u xxx
     
  11. Tegans Mama

    Tegans Mama home edding mum of 2

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    :( I'm so sorry to hear about this. Having a sick child is hard enough, without all the extra stress.
     
  12. xXhayleyXx

    xXhayleyXx Happy mummy of 6 :)

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    Huge hugs for u all hunny, am really sorry you are going through all this :hugs: xxx
     
  13. Linzi

    Linzi Prodest mummy ever

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    Oh gosh hun, you do not deserve this at all :(

    Little Jaiden is a fighter and I hope he is feeling lots better very soon, remember to look after yourself as well & get to the Drs, I know its easy to neglect yourself when your LO is poorly :(

    Hugs to you & little man x
     
  14. cazza22

    cazza22 Mummy to 2 & pregnant x

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    I am so sorry for ur losses huny and ur brave little soldier!! My thoughts are with you at this hard time x x x x
     
  15. Rabiah

    Rabiah Well-Known Member

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    So sorry for all that you are going through.
    Will send up a prayer for you and Jaiden.
    Take care
     
  16. JennyLynn512

    JennyLynn512 Mom to four

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    Oh Charlotte...I'm so sorry you are going through all of this right now. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and I hope Jaiden pulls through this. He's such a strong boy after all he's been through the first year of his life! I know he can!
     
  17. Vickie

    Vickie Hannah & Rhys <3

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    :hugs: you've not done anything to deserve this. Keeping you and Jaiden in my thoughts and prayers :hugs:
     
  18. trying4#1

    trying4#1 Well-Known Member

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    you have done nothing wrong...you do not deserve this...noone does...i hope jaidens treatment goes well...please do let someone at home know that you are going through this so that you can get some time to rest while your m/c is underway.
    i am sorry foryour loss x
     

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