Dawny
TTc after loss baby W2
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Hi Ladies
Ok, im at my wits end so gonna just throw it out there and ask if anyone has, or knows someone who has been in a similar situation and found what is wrong, or if you have any advice etc. Plus I must add now, there is a TMI alert, but as I say, I just dont know who to turn to.
In July I had a medically managed miscarriage. It was obviously very unpleasant and ever since I have had problems.
I went in on the Wed, and was home the next day. I was due back into work on the Monday, but decided I wasnt quite ready, which was good as I ended up back in hospital in immense pain. They couldnt find anything wrong and sent me home with painkillers and antibiotics.
Anyway, that soon passed with plenty of rest and I got back on with things. Obviously my husband and I are trying for a baby, but my cycles didnt come back until November, so this month was only our 3rd time of trying since the MC and yesterday AF arrived. I was extremely upset, but to make matters worse I am in agony in pain! I totally understand after a MS that your AF can be heavy etc etc, but I have been to the docs every month with this and they just dont seem to know what is wrong.
In Nov it was because of the MC, in Dec he said it was an anal fissure, gave me cream and stuff, and again now I am here at my desk and its ok until I try to walk, and I feel like my womb is being dragged out of me.
I had a third degree tear with my daughter who is now coming up 4, and ever since her birth ( ****** !! TMI ALERT !! ******) I really struggle to do a no 2, I hold myself (over pee and baby hole) with some tissue and it eases it out for some reason. And now AF is here I cant even pump without having the worst pains in my life drag through my insides.
Fair enough, I went the doc saying it hurt like buggery to do a no 2 and he suggested the anal fissure, but I have just noticed this time that if again I hold myself to do a no 2, it doesnt hurt?!
The pain I have is like my insides are being dragged out of me. There is nothing there, it just feels like it is falling out! I literally cannot walk right now, it feels so painful. I am sat at my desk not moving as its ok to sit, but once I get up all hell breaks lose and I cant hide the pain im in.
Sorry to go into so much detail , but I feel so alone right now and I dont know anyone who has experienced even a smidgen of what I have, I just dont know who to turn to.
Thank you for listening to me drone on xxxx
Ok, im at my wits end so gonna just throw it out there and ask if anyone has, or knows someone who has been in a similar situation and found what is wrong, or if you have any advice etc. Plus I must add now, there is a TMI alert, but as I say, I just dont know who to turn to.
In July I had a medically managed miscarriage. It was obviously very unpleasant and ever since I have had problems.
I went in on the Wed, and was home the next day. I was due back into work on the Monday, but decided I wasnt quite ready, which was good as I ended up back in hospital in immense pain. They couldnt find anything wrong and sent me home with painkillers and antibiotics.
Anyway, that soon passed with plenty of rest and I got back on with things. Obviously my husband and I are trying for a baby, but my cycles didnt come back until November, so this month was only our 3rd time of trying since the MC and yesterday AF arrived. I was extremely upset, but to make matters worse I am in agony in pain! I totally understand after a MS that your AF can be heavy etc etc, but I have been to the docs every month with this and they just dont seem to know what is wrong.
In Nov it was because of the MC, in Dec he said it was an anal fissure, gave me cream and stuff, and again now I am here at my desk and its ok until I try to walk, and I feel like my womb is being dragged out of me.
I had a third degree tear with my daughter who is now coming up 4, and ever since her birth ( ****** !! TMI ALERT !! ******) I really struggle to do a no 2, I hold myself (over pee and baby hole) with some tissue and it eases it out for some reason. And now AF is here I cant even pump without having the worst pains in my life drag through my insides.
Fair enough, I went the doc saying it hurt like buggery to do a no 2 and he suggested the anal fissure, but I have just noticed this time that if again I hold myself to do a no 2, it doesnt hurt?!
The pain I have is like my insides are being dragged out of me. There is nothing there, it just feels like it is falling out! I literally cannot walk right now, it feels so painful. I am sat at my desk not moving as its ok to sit, but once I get up all hell breaks lose and I cant hide the pain im in.
Sorry to go into so much detail , but I feel so alone right now and I dont know anyone who has experienced even a smidgen of what I have, I just dont know who to turn to.
Thank you for listening to me drone on xxxx