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cherryglitter
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i agree about the idiots on the news!
I had all my 4 vaginally. I lost my fourth Ava. But a doctor who is a friend said to me that in the United States A LOT of doctors push for C sections just to make money and I found that very sad,as a doctor you take an oath and to me for a doctor to put ANYONE through an operation just for money is disgusting.
I think if you need a c section than yes but just cause you want one is ridiculous and who the hell wants to come home and take care of an infant while you are probably in so much pain from the scars, just coming home and taking care of an infant is hard enough without having to do it in so much pain. Just doesn't make sense to me.
That's not correct. Our out of pocket healthcare costs are ridiculous and we are thus more likely to sue when malpractice occurs if you check the medical malpractice lawsuit rates between the two countries. Thus, the doctor is obligated to offer a c-section and explain the benefits and risks as opposed to natural childbirth if a complication comes up.
For instance, an OB patient has GD and because of it the baby is found to have macrosomia. The mother opts to deliver naturally and a birth injury occurs. The parents sue to the OB because they feel it could have been prevented.
"I explained the benefits of early induction, and c-section delivery to avoid such a complication and natural delivery was the patient's choice" sounds alot better in court than, "Well no I had confidence and felt natural delivery was still the best option so I didn't inform the patient of their other options" The second answer is guaranteed to have the court rule against the OB, blemishing their medical record and causing their malpractice insurance rates to rise.
It's not the OB's fault that we opt for a safer option when our options are laid out in front of us when we can eliminate a known complication from the equation as a culture we practice defensive medicine the majority of the time as opposed to reactive medicine.
I wouldn't worry too much about their being a surge in your healthcare costs even here where we're villified for having a high c-section rate only >2% of those are classified elective.
Well this is what I was told by a very well respected OBGYN, maybe for you and people you know it is not true, but I believe for SOME it is true not ALL. I do however believe there are more good caring doctors than not, but I also believe most want to make money and giving women c sections is more money. The medical field used to be about saving lives and giving the best care possible, but now even when I call to make an appointment with any doctor the first question is how will you be paying for it. I don't disagree with all you have said but what i posted also goes on too.I have seen it first hand..
I'm waiting for my elective section right now. Was supposed to be yesterday but after waiting and staved s whole day it got moved to.today.
It's elective, but beacuse both Mu twins are breach and I can't deliver them any other way. It's upsetting, as o desperately wanted a natural birth like my son.
If more and more people elect for no medical reason, more people will be left waiting. It's not fair that I could be bumped up because of someone else who choose one when they could have delivered naturally. because they had two emergencies yesterday by the time it got to me they didnt have the resources to deal with twins, even though I was first on the list. So here I go again waiting.
If I could have then myself I would, and save my sanity and recovery. People who opt for sections clearly have no idea how bad the recovery is.
As for those who have had a baby before and had a tough time then I can understand, but for someone who hasn't then I don't understand at all.
More staff is what is needed to make birth less scary.
I'm waiting for my elective section right now. Was supposed to be yesterday but after waiting and staved s whole day it got moved to.today.
It's elective, but beacuse both Mu twins are breach and I can't deliver them any other way. It's upsetting, as o desperately wanted a natural birth like my son.
If more and more people elect for no medical reason, more people will be left waiting. It's not fair that I could be bumped up because of someone else who choose one when they could have delivered naturally. because they had two emergencies yesterday by the time it got to me they didnt have the resources to deal with twins, even though I was first on the list. So here I go again waiting.
If I could have then myself I would, and save my sanity and recovery. People who opt for sections clearly have no idea how bad the recovery is.
As for those who have had a baby before and had a tough time then I can understand, but for someone who hasn't then I don't understand at all.
More staff is what is needed to make birth less scary.
I'm waiting for my elective section right now. Was supposed to be yesterday but after waiting and staved s whole day it got moved to.today.
It's elective, but beacuse both Mu twins are breach and I can't deliver them any other way. It's upsetting, as o desperately wanted a natural birth like my son.
If more and more people elect for no medical reason, more people will be left waiting. It's not fair that I could be bumped up because of someone else who choose one when they could have delivered naturally. because they had two emergencies yesterday by the time it got to me they didnt have the resources to deal with twins, even though I was first on the list. So here I go again waiting.
If I could have then myself I would, and save my sanity and recovery. People who opt for sections clearly have no idea how bad the recovery is.
As for those who have had a baby before and had a tough time then I can understand, but for someone who hasn't then I don't understand at all.
More staff is what is needed to make birth less scary.
Honestly, I'm all for it. I think a woman has a right to choose whether or not she has a c-section just like she chooses to breast or bottle feed .. besides, it's part of her birth plan, & all birth plans differ
I don't know, I could just be talking in circles here, I apologize as it's late I have thought very strongly to have an elective c-section next time around because of the horribly traumatic birth of my daughter. Episiotomy, 4th degree tear, unable to urinate for months, hemmorhaging of the uterus, the list goes on and on. It has caused me to fear giving birth again so badly that I have even thought about ruling out having any more children I just wouldn't want to be in the horrid state I was in ever again x
personally i think it should only be done for medical reasons. i don't understand why women would want to opt for a c-section.
I think if there is a genuine reason then a c section should be offered, other than that then I don't think you should just be able too choose, they have said that a c section costs the NHS on average an extra £1000 per birth, I worry where this money is going too come from when maternity services are already stretched too the limit, I worry it is going too put the lives of every mother & baby at risk regardless of their birth choice because there just isn't going too be the funding there. Maybe if there is no medical reason for a c section then it should be a case of paying towards the extra cost of the operation/increased after care out of your own pocket, although I dunno if that would work either. It just seems wrong (in my head) too offer elective c sections (where there is NO medical need) when many trusts have stopped minor/cosmetic (removal of fatty lumps ect) operations because of funding, I just can't get my head around the fact they are saying it is 'ok' too choose too have a major abdominal operation and they will pay for it, when it isn't 'ok' for people too still have minor (often done in GP surgerys) operations for removal of fatty lumps ect
I dunno if any of that even makes sense, but it does in my head lol